guild11 Posted December 24, 2016 Posted December 24, 2016 It's been almost 2 weeks since we broke up after 2 years together, she said she is 27 and wants to marry and have a family and doesn't want me to change my religion for her. I told her that I can't give her what she wants and we agreed on separation. 3 days after she messaged me and asked to come over to take the stuff I left, I went to her but asked her to bring my stuff to my car, she came out without nothing , she sat next to me and kissed me like never before, she started crying and said its really hard for her. I truly love her and asked her to give me more time so we could work this out, she cried more and asked me to leave and said it was a bad idea, so I basically left without my things. I was really filled with anger and I told her never call me or message me if it's not work related (she is my supervisor) She said she is sorry for everything and there it ended. She took 2 weeks off work and I haven't seen her since then. Fast forward to today, was working at the office and she calls my colleague and asks her to pass the phone to me. I took the phone and asked what's going on, she asked me the same and laughed a bit, what was funny for her I don't know. She basically asked me how I'm doing multiple times and then asked me to send her a work related file, So I messaged her with the file and she replied "thank you my love" I asked how love is related ? She said sorry again and didn't meant to say it, I told her it's cool and kept doing my work. Few hours later she replied again and said "you doing this on purpose aren't you ? No problem" I haven't replied anything. I was really down these days but decided to move on, Started actually progressing myself and stopped living for someone else and to be honest I felt great until she called. She is 27 I'm 26 and it was my 1st serious relationship but I don't understand what she tries to achieve.
BluesPower Posted December 24, 2016 Posted December 24, 2016 She still loves you. It is not that hard. Just keep the NC and she will get over it. And look, if you don't want to settle down right now, don't. She will find a guy that wants to get married and have kids and she will be ok. I will say that late 20's is kind of the time most people think about getting married.
dumbass2 Posted December 25, 2016 Posted December 25, 2016 She has no idea what she wants, but she likes you. It's not east to move on. You tell her if she wants to get back into a committed relationship then fine, but if not, then she need to move forward and not send messages like she did.
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