Adanma Posted December 24, 2016 Posted December 24, 2016 I and my ex boyfriend dated for about a year and we always fight over romantic issue tho no sex cos I feel he wants to take advantage of me. We only talked whenever we are on holiday cos he told me they don't allow phone in his school. So he would call me to visit him when he get home on holiday. I wasn't feeling secure about the whole tin cos whenever am in his Ouse everything is always about romance, no intimate talk and all. I got fed up and decided to break up with him even tho I fell in love with him and he agreed to break up as well. We never talked to each other for a week cos we are both angry with each other. I called him after a week just to find out that his number is switched off so I contacted him on face book and he said he's travelled to USA to study, I tried having him back but he said he needed space for a while, after trying my best I decided to give him the space he wanted. Two years later I messaged him on facebook to wish him happy birthday and to check up on him. He was happy I guess then we started talking and flirting again, he asked for my number, bbm pin and snapchat no, tho he never call me just texts. I asked for his number and tried calling but either he won't pick up or he gives me excuses. he told me he would be back in Nigeria soon and he's hoping we could see again. When he got back I went to see him in his house but we couldt talk about our issue but I left earlier hoping we could see again and discus our issue b4 he leaves again. But unfortunately the day am suppose to see him my phone spoilt so he couldn't reach me but before I could talk to him again the next day he was on his way back to USA. I asked him few questions if it's okay to move on with my life and he said yes that I should move on cos he never kno wen next he will see me and that I should wait for him cos nobody knows the future. And also he was thinking we could hang out and catch up but things didn't work out, but we could be cool friends. I agree to be his friend but I never contacted him after then cos I don't want to be friend zoned, I wanted something more , he also stopped contacting me after then what should I do????
Jimmyjackson Posted December 24, 2016 Posted December 24, 2016 He told you to move on with your life when you asked him, what is there to discuss? Sounds as if you two are always far apart anyway.
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