Angel29 Posted December 24, 2016 Posted December 24, 2016 I met a guy 4 years ago through a walking group. We were both interested in each other but for some reason we never got together. I told him I liked him and he had some sort of anxiety attack and panicked in front of me saying he wasn't interested anymore. I have seen him on and off in the group over the years. Last year we randomly got matched on eHarmony so I sent him a message which he sent a generic 'wants to get to know you' reply. I shut the match down a week later as I thought he could not be bothered to write back. 14 months later I saw him last night at a Christmas party, we spoke for an hour and he seemed very interested. He came back from the toilet and saw me talking to my friend's boyfriend and assumed I was being chatted up so he said he was going and said bye. My friends told me to text him that evening saying it was lovely to see him and to meet over Xmas if he is free and to have a nice Christmas. I thought it seemed a bit desperate but did it, he didn't reply. I know he is busy today but know he read the message as he has been on What's app. Did I do the right thing to message him? I feel very anxious and am fed up of not knowing where I stand with him.
phineas Posted December 24, 2016 Posted December 24, 2016 He must be incredibly good looking because i don't know many women who would be into a guy that sounds like he has mental issues or extreme social anxiety when it comes to women.
kendahke Posted December 24, 2016 Posted December 24, 2016 He sounds like he's got zero confidence and may end up being a huge pain you don't have to deal with. If a guy melted down in front of me just because I told him I was interested in him, I'd steer clear of him. There is someone else out there who is far more socially well-adjusted than this guy.
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