codedbrookes123 Posted December 23, 2016 Posted December 23, 2016 guys tell me how to tell me a friend that i love but i am try my best i can not tell her please help me
smackie9 Posted December 23, 2016 Posted December 23, 2016 Please don't do it! She will run for the hills. Never express your feelings when you are not in a relationship with them. Ask her out on a date. If she says yes, she likes you......then you let things take their course. Never push your feelings on her....it will make her uncomfortable. Just because you tell someone you love them, doesn't make them fall in love with you...ever. 3
preraph Posted December 23, 2016 Posted December 23, 2016 You don't tell someone you love them unless you're in a solid relationship with them and it's mutual. You can ACT like you like her by asking her on a date and see if she accepts and acts like she likes you back, and that is all.
HereNorThere Posted December 23, 2016 Posted December 23, 2016 I always tell the homies "if you have to ask me if she likes you, she doesn't." When someone likes you romantically, it's usually pretty obvious. You're about to make a rookie mistake and scare her off. You need to be calm, cool, non-needy, date, work on yourself, don't try to impress her and be the best guy she has to choose from. Unfortunately, you're the mayor of the friend zone now and that's almost impossible to get of. ALMOST impossible. I've done it and I just told you how to do it. Follow your instincts and you will crash and burn.
Daisy-oliviaWentcher Posted December 24, 2016 Posted December 24, 2016 (edited) My partner confessed his feelings to me almost 2 months ago. I wasn't expecting it. It dramatically changed my life. I was angry at him at first, I mean why didn't he tell me this vital information earlier, could have saved me a lot of time. Now we are together, I only wish we did this years ago and we were friends for a long, long time. I never looked at him or thought of him that way, but for five years, after he broke up with his ex, ( he was single for five years and barely dated other women) he said he knew that I was the person he was supposed to be with, he just couldn't shake off that " but she's my best friend" thing. After he saw me date and get with other men and fall in and out of love with guys that were not right for me, he realised he HAD to confess his true feelings. He too wish he just plucked up the courage sooner. I think the time is now. Don't let it drag out for years and years. The thing that put it into perspective I suspect was the right conditions. I'm not suggesting get her drunk, but a little wine doesn't hurt. Asking your best friend on a date might startle her just as much as blurting your feelings to her. After all, she may think? a date? with you? but you're my best friend! you've never liked me in that way! So to brace it before asking her on a date, you may have to come clean without blurting everything out in one go. A bit of prep and planning might up your chances. But at the same time, be 100 percent honest and apologise if need be for not doing sooner. I know my boyfriend apologised profusely. Edited December 24, 2016 by Daisy-oliviaWentcher
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