jonesey0 Posted December 23, 2016 Posted December 23, 2016 Ladies, I need your input on this girl i just met. Im affraid of going for too much or not doing anything. Can't read what she wants. The plot. We work at the same company, i started 3 years ago and she joined 8 months ago. We're both civil engineers and project managers, so in all this time weve never met because we were assigned to different projects in different cities, and i only talked with her on the phone 2 times, both in the last month. Some people had already told me she was gorgeous, absolutely stunning, so i had already checked her Facebook some months ago, were even linked on LinkedIn. The past weekend we had the company's Christmas Party, so finally I met her in person. She was on my table, two seats from me, and gave me a big smile when she arrived, telling a colleague that she only knew two people from our table (me and a female colleague). We didn't talk anything the whole dinner and I noticed she was feeling kind of left out, because she is new and doesn't know the majority of the coworkers. I also noticed that she glanced at me many times during the party. A couple hours later when most of the people from our table had already left, i went to our table, sat next to her, and we talked for almost 1 hour. She was super kind, looked me in the eyes, if i reached more towards her she did the same, and she smiled a lot the whole time. Im currently in a project in the small town she was born and where she goes every weekend, so we had that point of interest to talk. She told me she didn't work on Monday, and maybe she would stop by to say hello and see what we're building. Monday comes, I'm super busy at work, it's final day before we finish this project, I'm walking by the road with some colleagues, she stops her car next to me, says me hello and asks where she can park. I was stunned, never thought she would come. She parks her car, I go in her direction, she gets out of the car and greets me with two kisses on the cheek. We were together for 1+ hour, talked a lot, laughed a lot, walked alongside the river near to the location, she told me where she lived, the we said our goodbyes, and she told she would really like to go visit me at other project in involved now, who is in the same city she is currently working. Since that (three days ago) I did nothing. Because I don't know if she's into me, or if she's just being friendly and nice, because we work at the same company and share the same position. She is absolutely great, grown-up, mature, nothing like most girls that I've met recently. I may also add that She is younger than me (I'm 33, she's 25). Help me on this: is she interested in me? Am I overthinking this? Should i wait and see if she does anything? Should I do anything? If I had some assurance that she's into me, I would followup right away. She's one in a million.
IfonlyIknew Posted December 23, 2016 Posted December 23, 2016 I'd say 100% make a move. 3 days I wouldn't waste another minute. Plus she took the time on her day off to come visit you, I'm sure she had plenty to do at home, especially during this time of year. 1
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