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I have never been in a relationship at age 24. Would women find that weird


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I don't think i'm ugly as I've been asked out by attractive girls as well as being told occasionally by strangers. But Im not some stand out great looking guy though. However, Ive just never bothered asking a girl out as i felt those relationships would never last and they just never felt like the right girl for me. My friends though would always tell me that how can i be sure who the right girl is when i don't even bother going out with any girl. And i now feel like i'm missing a lot by never dating and the inexperience will put girls off.Plus I'm quite the introvert and i like my own space and always felt that getting a girlfriend would mean that i wouldn't get my own space anymore. And now that I've left school, my contact with girls/women has limited to merely work environment.

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Yeah I wouldn't necessarily mention that if I were you. Not that it's bad (you are who you are), but when it comes to first impressions, yeah, someone might see that as a red flag. You don't need to bring it up, though. That's strictly your business. If you wanna bring it up later, though, you can.

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Yeah I wouldn't necessarily mention that if I were you. Not that it's bad (you are who you are), but when it comes to first impressions, yeah, someone might see that as a red flag. You don't need to bring it up, though. That's strictly your business. If you wanna bring it up later, though, you can.

 

But i feel like they would be able to tell that I don't have much experience when it comes to relationships. plus don't girls like to find out about their bf's exes and if I've never brought any indication of one then she would know

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I'm currently talking to someone who is 28 and has never been in a relationship before. When he told me, I did think it was a little odd, because he is a kind and friendly person, seemingly good values that girls would enjoy and is quite good-looking. It doesn't deter me from anything, but then again I am not looking for a very serious thing at the moment. I say this because I have wondered if he just haven't been in a relationship because he has prefered to have casual relations, but I haven't enquired this much as of yet.

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