DeeDeeRamones Posted December 22, 2016 Posted December 22, 2016 OK i just found this forum but pure accident but I want to share my story. We have been dating for something like year and a half. It was not almost perfect due to my self destructive nature (drinking and not dealing with emotions at all)..So bit by bit I pusher her away. After that I got a job in a foreign country and we had no contact for almost two months. Well here things get a bit interesting: - during the time away I started doing some therapy that helped me resolved some inner demons. I knew she was seeing someone but I decided to send her an email to explain almost everything point by point... - I got a reply from her she told she is not seeing anyone anymore (guess it was a rebound thing) and we stayed in touch ever since - last week I had a business trip to her country and we meet. And yada yada yada we spent some quality time and night together. And here comes the tricky part; when talking about getting back together it ended up with something like: fix yourself first and then we can talk...Right now its to early. So at the moment I am imagining all sorts of scenarios in my head but I think that everything is just a "false" hope/dream...She just does not want to tell me straight. Of course that's just my feeling but usually I am right. Thanks for reading, any input appreciated.
kendahke Posted December 22, 2016 Posted December 22, 2016 Take her advice. Focus on working with the therapist and give it a good 18 months before you contact her again with any insights.
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