lolololbiatch Posted December 21, 2016 Posted December 21, 2016 I posted previously about the situation but here's a quick wrap up with some new information. Okay I'm going to try and make this extremely short. My boyfriend and I were together for 5 years. Near the end everything was fine -- we were making plans for our futures together (moving in, getting married, moving to a different city, etc.). We got into a small fight the day before we broke up and we didn't talk to each other. We had plans for the following day and I showed up only to have him telling me to get out because we were done. Anyway. We talked for about a week and it mostly consisted of me begging and trying to fix things. I thought we were making progress but then a week after that he was telling me that he doesn't need me or want another relationship with me as he had me someone else. This girl is 4 years younger than us as well as the complete opposite of me. No contact has been in place for almost a month now. He's contacted me once asking for his stuff (consisting of his favorite childhood toy) back about a month ago and I never responded. He hasn't brought this new girl up to his family much (which is odd considering he's a big mommas boy and was upset when I couldn't attend family functions because his family is that important to him) but has asked his mom about me a few times. As well as pointed out to her, and I quote "she used my favorite picture of her as her profile picture". Yesterday was my birthday. He didn't bother to wish me a happy birthday however he looked at my snapchat story (when we broke up he made a new account and didn't add me so he's using his old account to look at my story). Idk if I'm looking too far into this or if he's starting to miss me.
DarrenB Posted December 21, 2016 Posted December 21, 2016 I reckon he just realized it was your birthday and was assuming what you were doing. His thoughts probably something like "It's her Birthday, wonder if she's spending it with a new guy" or something like that. Ex's have a tendency to snoop on social media just to check up on how you are... which is BS. They're really just seeing if you're moving on, or getting drunk or doing anything outrageous. Block him off that account also and continue moving on with your life. Who needs reminiscence of the past when there's the present and future to worry about:) 1
Author lolololbiatch Posted December 21, 2016 Author Posted December 21, 2016 It just doesn't make sense to me that if he's as happy as he claims to his friends why he found the need to log into a different account just to see what I'm doing. If he's over me and doesn't want anything to do with me, like he's yelling his friends then there should be no need for him to feel that necessary.
Bromeo Posted December 27, 2016 Posted December 27, 2016 This makes me smile. After my rather abrupt and painful breakup several months ago, FB messenger notified me that she was looking at my profile. I'm 38, and was unused to this pediatric nonsense. In response, on FB, life is grand. Awesome pics, vacations, family time, music, concerts, etc. Whether mine misses me, is curious, is bored, hates her new morlock, or anything else, I could care less. To my knowledge her phone works and her hands aren't broken. Living well truly is the best revenge. Take care.
mammax3 Posted December 29, 2016 Posted December 29, 2016 I don't know what it could mean either. But I'm sure that likes and views on social media don't equal love or interest - like Bromeo said, if they're that interested, they'll reach out. (not to hijack - but I didn't know that FB could alert you that people have seen your profile... is that true? what about IG?)
Bromeo Posted December 29, 2016 Posted December 29, 2016 Mammax, I'm not friends with my ex on FB, and I never use messenger. When I logged in to read an article another friend had sent, my ex was at the top of my list. When I clicked on her, it stated " 'crazy ex gf' (murica) used your phone number to reach you". I had recently changed my registered email on FB. There really isn't any other plausible explanation. After conducting some causal open source research, FB is a stalkers dream come true. I didn't look at my exs page for weeks, and she still remained top of my search bar. It truly will drive you batty. Regarding IG, I know if you have IG stories you can see, but I doubt you could tell on regular IG. And truly, if her life was so grand, she wouldn't be looking. Consequently, on FB, mine is. LOL Dave
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