phoenix333 Posted July 16, 2005 Posted July 16, 2005 My relationship is over. I have to face this now. I'm not 'waiting' for her. I think that real space in a relationship is about having time for one's self...either alone, or with friends...'space' is not 100% ignoring your boy/girlfriend. She and I were in a LDR, so she had lots of space, space was not, and is not the issue. She changed her mind for whatever reason(s), and no longer wanted to be with me, but she didn't choose to say this....instead she chose an old, worn out line. This choice of hers was disrespectful, and in my opinion, shows a lack of integrity. She did not take the time, or make the effort to communicate openly and honestly, thereby disrespecting herself, me, and our relationship. She is simply NOT the woman I thought she was. Fine. I will learn to accept that. I will grieve. I will let her go. I deserve to be treated respectfully. I am not willing to settle for someone who so easily dismisses me from her life.
greenhorn Posted July 16, 2005 Posted July 16, 2005 This is a major step to know that it is over and from the journey to move over her begins. The one who loves you, will not make your cry or hurt you and the day they do this, it means they dont love you. whatever happens never allow some one to treat you as a lesser human being, always uphold your dignity and self esteem. You are doing great, keep it up ciao
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