Author BeeT Posted January 15, 2017 Author Posted January 15, 2017 Also I don't know if it's worth mentioning that when I texted him earlier this week his replies were immediate, and mine were every hour or so. He told me not once, but twice to 'let me know how that goes' and replied to every little detail or question I asked him. He had also sent me a baby photo 2 weeks ago just randomly. I had only ever asked about it once right before the fight we had, so he had obviously remembered this and thought I would like it. I said I'd send one back when I got home and I did, he replied in a light hearted/teasing way and seemed to like the photograph of me. I didn't reply then, and that was Wednesday so we haven't talked since. Obviously I know that if he were desperate to see me he would be texting/calling/all the rest, but we have grown out of touch this month and it is possible he just doesn't know what to say? I would like to talk to him, but I also don't really know what to say or how to reach out to rekindle the friendship when we start back at uni. I'm really confused because he seems to still like me, but not enough to start pursuing me again. We haven't bought up the fight we had at all but have been cordial and friendly- should I just mirror this in person when I see him and see where it goes from there? And yes, I know I may be coming off as a bit more invested than someone looking for my situation- but I do want a kind of casual relationship, not just friends with benefits. This was exactly what we had before christmas so I was happy- I never mentioned meeting his friends and family, making anything facebook official or being his girlfriend, because I wasn't interested in those things. I just liked spending time with him and found him attractive and sweet, and I'd like to get back to where we were. I don't know if he felt he was getting in deeper and that was why he got scared, but I'm just so confused. If anything I'd just like to be friends again, but his texting is confusing me a little. How do I act in person? Sorry for such a rambling message! It's very therapeutic to get it all out here though, and of course massive thanks to anyone who takes the time to read and reply. He was always quite paranoid I was annoyed or angry with him sometimes when we were seeing each other...could he still be feeling this way? I've been trying to be friendly, and he's been friendly too, but he hasn't been initiating contact which makes me wary of seeming desperate/needy.
Author BeeT Posted January 15, 2017 Author Posted January 15, 2017 Please help! I'm a bit nervous about tomorrow :s
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