Post Break Up

December 19, 2016

Hi Everyone,

I broke up with my ex fiance around 5/6 weeks ago, we were together in total for 2 and a half years in that time we experienced everything be it the good, the bad and the ugly.

I really loved her, "but" all of her giving out and nagging eventually wore me down and I just ended it on the spot one evening. She begged me for 2/3 weeks after to take her back, but I decided to have my space and just evaluate my thinking on life in general. (November is a tough time for me as I lost my dad to cancer this month last year)

I can safely say, I was content with my decision but over the last 10 days or so I was wondering how she was doing? To my surprise she had gotten into another relationship already which made me very very angry......

Look I know 100% I gave up my part of the relationship because I broke up with her, but it was no more than 3 weeks ago that she told me she would rather die or not love again if I wasn't her man.

I'm sure it's normal to go from feeling fine after breaking up with someone, to then hurting somewhat when you hear/see them with someone else.

Just wondering is her behaviour typical of a rebound relationship?

I think the reason our relationship broke down, was because for our first year together I was like her guinea pig and after we had a big falling out last summer I stopped that, she basically wants someone to do everything for her.

We talked on the phone Friday, she claimed she was still heartbroken and will always love me, then why is she in another relationship? I'm not saying I'd have ever gotten back with her, but it would have been nice to speak face to face as adults but she didn't have the balls to meet me Friday evening because I think if she had of done her feelings may have came back.

I'm gutted and all because she my soulmate, but if you love someone that much would you give out and make their life tough (like she done to me) if she actually was "the one" ?

December 19, 2016

It's a straightforward rebound.

Now is the time to institute No Contact.

*No direct contact.

*No sending or receiving of messages.

*Block any means she might use to contact you.

*No replies to anything that gets through your blocks.

*No indirect contact through third parties.

*De-friend or delete her from all social media.

*No monitoring of her on social media.

*No 'little birds' feeding you news.

*Tell people that you don't want to know anything about what she is doing or saying.

Take care.

December 19, 2016

I can't gather all the details from your message, but it seems like you regret your decisions around 6 weeks post break up. Her nagging got to you, so what's to say that it won't happen again? Did you find ways to fix the relationship?

Some perspective on her side, as I am going through something similar:

She probably agonized and thought through the situation and came to the conclusion that after 3 weeks, her actions alone weren't the only reason for the break up. There are yours too. Weighing everything, she is trying to move on to heal. Sometimes this includes dating, for some they can do that right away and compartmentalize their feelings. I agree with Satu and you should take this time to do No Contact, and really just figure yourself out and whether you have what it takes in you to move along with this relationship and if she is willing to forgive you. Still think 6 weeks is too fresh. (I'm in the same boat as her, we have roughly the same amount of relationship time). I am currently trying to move on 3 weeks post break up. I begged for my ex back when he broke up with me, but that was it, and thinking I wouldn't love anyone else again. Slowly, realizing that was me just being an emotional wreck and I'm finding myself willing to go on dates. Depending on her state, it is probably a rebound. But for myself, if I were to date someone now, I would not be holding onto a thread that my ex, or you, in this case would be coming back. It wouldn't be healthy or the same, anyways. Maybe in a few months when we both have some time to heal and see if the feelings are the same.

So like Satu said, just try and move on and heal. If your feelings don't change, you will have a chance. My ex said the same bull crap, maybe in the future, who knows what it holds. I do, and it will take a whole mountain moved by my ex for me to take him back. Maybe two mountains? You get the idea? You will really have to prove you messed up and will not propose a break up, realize how official it is.

December 19, 2016

Why should she have a conversation telling you she is going to date someone else? You broke up with her. That's a two way thing. You both move on. You don't get to decide what she does anymore.

December 19, 2016

It's a straightforward rebound.

Now is the time to institute No Contact.

*No direct contact.
*No sending or receiving of messages.
*Block any means she might use to contact you.
*No replies to anything that gets through your blocks.
*No indirect contact through third parties.
*De-friend or delete her from all social media.
*No monitoring of her on social media.
*No 'little birds' feeding you news.
*Tell people that you don't want to know anything about what she is doing or saying.

Take care.

Follow this are your doomed

December 19, 2016

Why should she have a conversation telling you she is going to date someone else? You broke up with her. That's a two way thing. You both move on. You don't get to decide what she does anymore.

Steady on, all I wanted was to talk to her face to face not run away to Bali and never return.

I never "decided" what she done either, no need to be so aggressive.....

December 19, 2016

I can't gather all the details from your message, but it seems like you regret your decisions around 6 weeks post break up. Her nagging got to you, so what's to say that it won't happen again? Did you find ways to fix the relationship?

Some perspective on her side, as I am going through something similar:

She probably agonized and thought through the situation and came to the conclusion that after 3 weeks, her actions alone weren't the only reason for the break up. There are yours too. Weighing everything, she is trying to move on to heal. Sometimes this includes dating, for some they can do that right away and compartmentalize their feelings. I agree with Satu and you should take this time to do No Contact, and really just figure yourself out and whether you have what it takes in you to move along with this relationship and if she is willing to forgive you. Still think 6 weeks is too fresh. (I'm in the same boat as her, we have roughly the same amount of relationship time). I am currently trying to move on 3 weeks post break up. I begged for my ex back when he broke up with me, but that was it, and thinking I wouldn't love anyone else again. Slowly, realizing that was me just being an emotional wreck and I'm finding myself willing to go on dates. Depending on her state, it is probably a rebound. But for myself, if I were to date someone now, I would not be holding onto a thread that my ex, or you, in this case would be coming back. It wouldn't be healthy or the same, anyways. Maybe in a few months when we both have some time to heal and see if the feelings are the same.

So like Satu said, just try and move on and heal. If your feelings don't change, you will have a chance. My ex said the same bull crap, maybe in the future, who knows what it holds. I do, and it will take a whole mountain moved by my ex for me to take him back. Maybe two mountains? You get the idea? You will really have to prove you messed up and will not propose a break up, realize how official it is.

Firstly thank you for your reply.

Basically, I would have done anything for her and loved her beyond words. The problem was her constant need for attention, which might seem cute but it wasn't when she would act like a 12 year old for days on end by sulking with me if I didn't do as she wished.

It was only 3 weeks ago that she begging me to take her back and how she would change, not to mention that she claimed she was pregnant with my child as she missed her period.....

Look I realize I shouldn't have ignored like I done, but I needed space because tbh losing my Dad this time last year crushed me and her constant nagging at me just went in ear and out the other, I got so sick of it I just flipped and broke up with her.

So i find out 2 weeks ago she's now in a new relationship

Now look I don't blame her for trying to move on with her life after I ignored her "but" it was hard unreasonable for me to think that after 3 or 4 weeks of space, that she would still be single and we could at least talk like adults?

She was well able to tell me just 3 weeks ago how she would rather be dead than be with another man or how she couldn't ever love anyone but me! This is what I can't get my head around, I spoke to her Thursday and Friday and she claimed to still love me (she always will love me too) and that she's still heartbroken, yet is in a relationship.........

The jury is still out on whether or not I made the right decision or not, only time will tell. Still it's hardly too much to wonder that how someone could get in a new relationship so soon after everything she said, no?

Edited December 20, 2016 by Pugwash

December 20, 2016

Firstly thank you for your reply.

Basically, I would have done anything for her and loved her beyond words. The problem was her constant need for attention, which might seem cute but it wasn't when she would act like a 12 year old for days on end by sulking with me if I didn't do as she wished.

It was only 3 weeks ago that she begging me to take her back and how she would change, not to mention that she claimed she was pregnant with my child as she missed her period.....

Look I realize I shouldn't have ignored like I done, but I needed space because tbh losing my Dad this time last year crushed me and her constant nagging at me just went in ear and out the other, I got so sick of it I just flipped and broke up with her.

So i find out 2 weeks ago she's now in a new relationship

Now look I don't blame her for trying to move on with her life after I ignored her "but" it was hard unreasonable for me to think that after 3 or 4 weeks of space, that she would still be single and we could at least talk like adults?

She was well able to tell me just 3 weeks ago how she would rather be dead than be with another man or how she couldn't ever love anyone but me! This is what I can't get my head around, I spoke to her Thursday and Friday and she claimed to still love me (she always will love me too) and that she's still heartbroken, yet is in a relationship.........

The jury is still out on whether or not I made the right decision or not, only time will tell. Still it's hardly too much to wonder that how someone could get in a new relationship so soon after everything she said, no?

I guess I dont understand what you're expecting here. YOU broke up with HER. She then proceeded to BEG you back for weeks while you IGNORED her. I guess she said NEXT! and got on with things. Good for her.

December 20, 2016

Haha, the nagging ex gf gets more sympathy than the thread starter. Isn't that ironic? Pugwash, i know how you feel. But you're doing your self a disfavor by trying to get closure. You broke up with her for good reasons. Now you have to go all in. She doesn't owe you anything anymore and gladly you don't owe her anymore. There's nothing she can give you now. Two years with her showed you why she's not the right girl for you. Now keep that in mind and move on. The best way to preserve your sanity and dignity is to ignore her and occupy yourself with something else.

December 20, 2016

Thanks for the all replies.

Look I'm not expecting ANYTHING from my ex, nor do I demand it.

Not once have I hid the fact that I broke up with her, giving up her was the hardest thing I've ever had to do along with burying my father.

I realize ignoring her for a few weeks was probably childish on my part but my head wasn't in a good place and look hindsight is great, would I rewind time if I could? I don't know.

I would be lying through my teeth if her being with someone now didn't bug me, all I'm trying to say is after I had 3 or 4 weeks of space I was still expecting her to be single especially after all the stuff she filled me with.

Had she of not gotten in a new relationship I would have definitely met her just to speak as adults and may or may not have fought tooth and nail to keep our relationship, but her being in a new relationship finished that.

Can anyone explain how I was comfortable being single up until the point of seeing her in a new relationship?

Are these feelings normal?

I'll be straight out honest, she put me through far too much **** and grief for me to ever have a long ever lasting relationship with as i'd imagine for the next 40 years she wouldn't ever change her ways.

Yet I'm kinda sad because there is a part of me that wonders what she's doing and stuff I do miss about her.

December 20, 2016

Thanks for the all replies.

Look I'm not expecting ANYTHING from my ex, nor do I demand it.

Not once have I hid the fact that I broke up with her, giving up her was the hardest thing I've ever had to do along with burying my father.

I realize ignoring her for a few weeks was probably childish on my part but my head wasn't in a good place and look hindsight is great, would I rewind time if I could? I don't know.

I would be lying through my teeth if her being with someone now didn't bug me, all I'm trying to say is after I had 3 or 4 weeks of space I was still expecting her to be single especially after all the stuff she filled me with.

Had she of not gotten in a new relationship I would have definitely met her just to speak as adults and may or may not have fought tooth and nail to keep our relationship, but her being in a new relationship finished that.

Can anyone explain how I was comfortable being single up until the point of seeing her in a new relationship?

Are these feelings normal?

I'll be straight out honest, she put me through far too much **** and grief for me to ever have a long ever lasting relationship with as i'd imagine for the next 40 years she wouldn't ever change her ways.

Yet I'm kinda sad because there is a part of me that wonders what she's doing and stuff I do miss about her.

Do you want her back or are you just a bit upset that she's met someone before you have? Perhaps your ego took a hit that she appears to have moved on so soon.

Are you feeling lonely now you've spent time by yourself and miss the idea of a relationship?

Maybe some questions to ask yourself, you have said yourself she put you through a lot, maybe focus on that?

December 20, 2016

Shes pretty much on the rebound yes.

Sounds like you loved her but couldn't live with her. I've been there, if you put up with it out of 'love,' the nagging gets worse and worse with time. It drives you mad, especially when you're processing bereavement and I've been there also. Contending with the feeling of loss of a parent, plus a partner who is emotionally unstable is way too much.

I personally think whats even worse than breaking up, is starting to retaliate ie defending yourself and shouting back to the one you love or going distant until she calms down, which could be a long time.

The way she is now, may well be the way she is forever. Let her go for now, who knows she might get therapy and 5 years be more stable. But I wouldn't wait, best to move on and live your life.

Sounds like you need a woman who's less aggressive.

December 20, 2016

Do you want her back or are you just a bit upset that she's met someone before you have? Perhaps your ego took a hit that she appears to have moved on so soon.

Are you feeling lonely now you've spent time by yourself and miss the idea of a relationship?

Maybe some questions to ask yourself, you have said yourself she put you through a lot, maybe focus on that?

No not at all my friend, that hasn't even come into it.

I'd be a super confident guy, always have been and maybe my ego has taken a hammering? I look at her new boyfriend and he is nothing like me in any way, he isn't your stereotypical good looking guy or the athletic type with a keen interest on the latest fashion trends which I was. He is the polar opposite of me? Does that shed any light on it?

I just can't believe how someone could tell me 3 weeks ago that she couldn't ever love anyone how she loved me or ever see herself with another person the same way she was with me (obviously she was being a bit dramatic )

But then suddenly get in a new relationship after such a short space of time?

I love her, I will always love her (for what we had) and she will always have a place in my heart "but" if she walked up to my front door and asked me to take her I can't honestly say what I would do?

I

December 20, 2016

No not at all my friend, that hasn't even come into it.

I'd be a super confident guy, always have been and maybe my ego has taken a hammering? I look at her new boyfriend and he is nothing like me in any way, he isn't your stereotypical good looking guy or the athletic type with a keen interest on the latest fashion trends which I was. He is the polar opposite of me? Does that shed any light on it?

I just can't believe how someone could tell me 3 weeks ago that she couldn't ever love anyone how she loved me or ever see herself with another person the same way she was with me (obviously she was being a bit dramatic )

But then suddenly get in a new relationship after such a short space of time?

I love her, I will always love her (for what we had) and she will always have a place in my heart "but" if she walked up to my front door and asked me to take her I can't honestly say what I would do?

I

She probably meant those things when she said them but the reality is you never know when you'll meet someone, mostly happens randomly I guess.

December 20, 2016

People are capable of more than one love in life. She did love you but you left her, you are no longer an option for her. She wants to find happiness.

December 20, 2016

People are capable of more than one love in life. She did love you but you left her, you are no longer an option for her. She wants to find happiness.

Which I'm fully aware of.

My point is if someone is so devastated about being on the receiving end of a bad break up, only on Thursday and Friday last she was crying and telling me she's still in love with me, she's still heartbroken and will always love me.

December 20, 2016

It is completely fine that you needed space to evaluate this is healthy and needed. Thus, you stated that you had to do many things for your ex-girlfriend and I see this is not healthy in a relationship. There should be one giving just as much as the other in a relationship if not one will be wore out. Also, this was not fair for you. It’s understandable your feelings as you care about her and I admire your strength in this situation. I extend my condolences to you for the passing of your father. she did enter into another relationship quickly in spite of what she stated to you. It seems that she may have wanted to ease her pain not that she is over you. I see that you have taken the necessary steps as well as, you desired to talk to her face to face but she declined. I believe that you are a great person who wants the best for her regardless of what she has done to you. I appreciate your vigor in this situation. I’m wondering have you thought of any healthy coping methods that may help you through the feelings? I hope this helps.

Best wishes!

December 20, 2016

She's most likely on the rebound OP. Everyone needs to find ways to stop thinking about their ex's. Whats a better way then finding someone new? May be better, may be worse than your ex, regardless its someone to occupy her time.

December 20, 2016

It is completely fine that you needed space to evaluate this is healthy and needed. Thus, you stated that you had to do many things for your ex-girlfriend and I see this is not healthy in a relationship. There should be one giving just as much as the other in a relationship if not one will be wore out. Also, this was not fair for you. It’s understandable your feelings as you care about her and I admire your strength in this situation. I extend my condolences to you for the passing of your father. she did enter into another relationship quickly in spite of what she stated to you. It seems that she may have wanted to ease her pain not that she is over you. I see that you have taken the necessary steps as well as, you desired to talk to her face to face but she declined. I believe that you are a great person who wants the best for her regardless of what she has done to you. I appreciate your vigor in this situation. I’m wondering have you thought of any healthy coping methods that may help you through the feelings? I hope this helps.
Best wishes!

Thank you for your kind words

I guess people are ignoring the obvious just because I ended the relationship? The obvious being, how could someone who only 3 weeks ago claimed to have loved me more than anything just get into another relationship and still proceed to tell me not even a week ago that she's heartbroken and is still in love with me

I can see why some people do that, but in her case I'm lost that she could be so broken hearted over me and still date someone else so soon afterwards?

When we spoke on Thursday she said "that I bet you would have zero interest in speaking to me only because you can see I'm with someone else" which imo was pretty cruel. I took 3 weeks space to re-evaluate my life and thinking and I needed to get away from our relationship to breath.

It doesn't make breaking up easier just because I was the one who said "we should break up" the pain is still as tough and is there.

I really do love her, "but" could I play Russian Roulette for the next 30/40 years with someone who demands so much, I'm not so sure?

I know I keep saying this but only on Friday she claimed to still be in love with me and is still heartbroken? It just doesn't add up.........

December 20, 2016

She's most likely on the rebound OP. Everyone needs to find ways to stop thinking about their ex's. Whats a better way then finding someone new? May be better, may be worse than your ex, regardless its someone to occupy her time.

Yeah I hear ya, I could probably understand causal dating or one night stands (that's not her style to be fair) but to throw yourself straight into a new relationship despite telling your ex fiance that she still loves and is still heartbroken over, seems to me that what she's doing is unfair on herself and unfair on her new partner no?

She drinks a lot too (not exactly an alcoholic) 2 and 3 nights out a week is normal for her, I reckon it helped numb the pain of a broken heart but is only masking the short term issue.

December 20, 2016

I think she's doing what any normal person would do after their world has been turned upside down. She's trying to flip it back over and get some semblance of her life back in order. You broke up with her, didn't talk to her for 21 days and then expect her to be all hunky dory after? Basically you ripped every source of security out from under her and left her in the cold. If you had explained to her why you needed space, I imagine this gsm would be different.

Now, because she's in a relationship doesn't mean she's lost forever if you want to pursue her again. However, she is doing what she feels is best for her and trying to move on with her life. It's likely the first guy to give her attention was this guy. But honestly, the fact that he's everything you're not means that she doesn't want the constant reminder of what was taken away from her when you broke up with her.

What difference does it make if she's dating a new guy? You dumped her because she's got problems you don't want to work through and maybe you're realizing they weren't so bad, OR you're ok with the result, but just butt hurt because she is trying to move on past you.

People say some crazy things when a relationship ends. I know I have. I've cried, negotiated, made promises etc. Even though I know these things aren't 100% genuine, we still say them. She likely realized the sun still rises whether or not you're her fiance or not and that her life will go on.

You're being jealous and it is affecting your line of questioning.

December 21, 2016

Thanks for the all replies.

Look I'm not expecting ANYTHING from my ex, nor do I demand it.

Not once have I hid the fact that I broke up with her, giving up her was the hardest thing I've ever had to do along with burying my father.

I realize ignoring her for a few weeks was probably childish on my part but my head wasn't in a good place and look hindsight is great, would I rewind time if I could? I don't know.

I would be lying through my teeth if her being with someone now didn't bug me, all I'm trying to say is after I had 3 or 4 weeks of space I was still expecting her to be single especially after all the stuff she filled me with.

Had she of not gotten in a new relationship I would have definitely met her just to speak as adults and may or may not have fought tooth and nail to keep our relationship, but her being in a new relationship finished that.

Can anyone explain how I was comfortable being single up until the point of seeing her in a new relationship?

Are these feelings normal?

I'll be straight out honest, she put me through far too much **** and grief for me to ever have a long ever lasting relationship with as i'd imagine for the next 40 years she wouldn't ever change her ways.

Yet I'm kinda sad because there is a part of me that wonders what she's doing and stuff I do miss about her.

Don't feel the need to validate yourself to people on this forum: there will always be people who are hurt from a break up and things done to them and have their own opinions of matters. Take it as that, with a grain of salt to give you some perspective. A lot of people have some said some very interesting things.

I'm glad that you are not demanding anything from her. Women go through break ups very differently. Just continue no contact, forgive her for her mistakes, forgive yourself for your mistakes, and take this time to heal and forget the old relationship. Your goal should be to walk away from this as a better prospect for any future relationship, if that is meant to be with her, you best fight for it and have a mature talk with her. Seems like feelings got pent up and communication wasn't at its best.

As for your feelings, yes. They are completely normal. You had the thought of taking a break to clear your head and analyze things logically. Your ex had tried to do that through begging, and realized she wasn't getting anywhere. She took time away, and in the mean time found herself in a new relationship. I say this will probably not work, is because she is fresh out of a long term relationship, and feelings will still be there. Let her figure things out, let her grow from the pain of the break up. Who knows, this may have been the catalyst to bring you two closer.

Again, emphasis is on no contact, or very limited contact with light talk and nothing of the relationship to see how she is doing. Keep it light, sweet, and short. SHORT. SHOOOOORT! Not one word answer short, but you get the idea. And simply, figure yourself out. You got this.

(I'm trying this whole thing of letting my ex go with love and trying to be nice to dumpers so take this while you can haha)

-WhatDEWWWWW

December 22, 2016

Don't feel the need to validate yourself to people on this forum: there will always be people who are hurt from a break up and things done to them and have their own opinions of matters. Take it as that, with a grain of salt to give you some perspective. A lot of people have some said some very interesting things.

I'm glad that you are not demanding anything from her. Women go through break ups very differently. Just continue no contact, forgive her for her mistakes, forgive yourself for your mistakes, and take this time to heal and forget the old relationship. Your goal should be to walk away from this as a better prospect for any future relationship, if that is meant to be with her, you best fight for it and have a mature talk with her. Seems like feelings got pent up and communication wasn't at its best.

As for your feelings, yes. They are completely normal. You had the thought of taking a break to clear your head and analyze things logically. Your ex had tried to do that through begging, and realized she wasn't getting anywhere. She took time away, and in the mean time found herself in a new relationship. I say this will probably not work, is because she is fresh out of a long term relationship, and feelings will still be there. Let her figure things out, let her grow from the pain of the break up. Who knows, this may have been the catalyst to bring you two closer.

Again, emphasis is on no contact, or very limited contact with light talk and nothing of the relationship to see how she is doing. Keep it light, sweet, and short. SHORT. SHOOOOORT! Not one word answer short, but you get the idea. And simply, figure yourself out. You got this.

(I'm trying this whole thing of letting my ex go with love and trying to be nice to dumpers so take this while you can haha)

-WhatDEWWWWW

If he shouldn't "validate" himself to people on this forum, then why is he here?? If he wants answers, well we've got questions, too. We aren't here to coddle him. He broke up with her. She has moved on. YES, it was fast and NO it doesnt mean she's over him, but she now has to take care of herself -- his ignoring her made that pretty clear. He doesn't get to leave her and then dictate her love-life afterwards.

Sorry, but no. That's not how any of this works. Ya snooze, ya lose.

OP, you didnt want her, so leave her be.

Edited December 22, 2016 by BlkVelvet

December 22, 2016

If he shouldn't "validate" himself to people on this forum, then why is he here?? If he wants answers, well we've got questions, too. We aren't here to coddle him. He broke up with her. She has moved on. YES, it was fast and NO it doesnt mean she's over him, but she now has to take care of herself -- his ignoring her made that pretty clear. He doesn't get to leave her and then dictate her love-life afterwards.

Sorry, but no. That's not how any of this works. Ya snooze, ya lose.

OP, you didnt want her, so leave her be.

Haha I see what you mean. I guess validation in my point is that he shouldn't have to try to gain the support of people on here because we are mostly dumpees, myself included. So he should focus less on appeasing people but focus on gaining perspective? Additionally, trust me, I am trying to hold back my tongue from spewing all the "nice" things I would like to say. But in the end, he is trying to learn from his mistakes and I guess I am just trying to give the benefit of the doubt. I guess I am at that place where I am trying to understand my dumper, and who wouldn't want a dumper to come back and say, "I made a mistake. I want to work on us, together." Now that's up to us if we want them back, hahaha.

I wholeheartedly agree, ignoring her was pretty harsh. And I would be really hurt as well. So I guess I was just trying to let him know that he should focus his questions on future steps with the things he's done, and expect there to be bashing? Hahaha I don't know, I tried to be nice .

Sorry if I offended,

-WhatDEWWWWW

Edited December 22, 2016 by whatdeww18

December 22, 2016

If he shouldn't "validate" himself to people on this forum, then why is he here?? If he wants answers, well we've got questions, too. We aren't here to coddle him. He broke up with her. She has moved on. YES, it was fast and NO it doesnt mean she's over him, but she now has to take care of herself -- his ignoring her made that pretty clear. He doesn't get to leave her and then dictate her love-life afterwards.

Sorry, but no. That's not how any of this works. Ya snooze, ya lose.

OP, you didnt want her, so leave her be.

Hold up, who's suggesting I was ever looking to dictate her life

Again, "you snooze, you lose" has literally no logic to this in the slightest.

I explained that I was going through a really tough time, she never gave me the space I needed.

I've let her be too? But it wasn't me telling her I was still heartbroken and madly in love with her last week, it was her telling me!

This is what I've the issue with, this girl is still madly in love with me, she will always love me and is still heartbroken! Her words not mine.

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