Nadine123 Posted December 29, 2016 Posted December 29, 2016 it's good he sent that childish text because now you know for a fact you did the right decision by not replying and NEVER replying. 1
Author Yaknow321 Posted December 29, 2016 Author Posted December 29, 2016 Yes Nadine, I see it that way myself. I just cannot believe it. The behavior is SO extreme I cannot understand how anyone thinks like that!! I was just starting to feel better too, and now this happens. Timed perfectly...
Nadine123 Posted December 29, 2016 Posted December 29, 2016 it's okay, if you know my story you'll understand how ****ed up people can be. Just thank god you arent wasting any of your time with this idiot. 1
Author Yaknow321 Posted December 29, 2016 Author Posted December 29, 2016 Thanks Nadine. Fortunately for me, this is the first time I'm dealing with someone like this, and I feel terrible for anyone that has had to deal with this. I just never could understand why I couldn't get along with this man, when I could get along with pretty much everyone else! 1
Author Yaknow321 Posted April 21, 2017 Author Posted April 21, 2017 Well, I'm back... just to give you all an update. He was texting me but my phone had him blocked. But the block was only 90 days and expired and I received a few texts from him. All nasty. Very cold. He eventually showed up at my house and I refused to engage. I did say that he looked like crap though. Must've gained 40lbs.. i said i was done and i had obviously no desire to speak or see him in anyway platonic or otherwise. He said I was "being weird for no reason again". Huh. I said I wished him the best of luck and to delete my number and shut my door. Eventually he took me seriously and stumbled away... and that was the last of it.
Downtown Posted April 21, 2017 Posted April 21, 2017 YaKnow, what a surprise! Thanks so much for returning to let us know how you're doing. Sounds like you're doing very well to me. Congratulations on breaking the cycle and freeing yourself from the toxic, abusive relationship? 2
Author Yaknow321 Posted April 21, 2017 Author Posted April 21, 2017 Thank you!! All the pieces started to come together and I just realized he is toxic!! I hate to call someone that but he is. I thought about it and he really had nothing to offer except grief. Someone asked me if I could see myself married to him and I immediately said OH MY GOD no way, id never have peace in my life. And that was it... my mind shut him out completely. The negatives far outweighed the positives and i realized how toxic he was. You all helped me see three the fog. Thank you all again!!! My mind feels great, healthy and positive!! 2
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