ElizabethIII Posted December 20, 2016 Posted December 20, 2016 What is there to tell? You talked but never met. Maybe he would have met you for coffee and that was that. If you had met, started dating, had sex, etc then you would be justified in telling her, but no leave it alone. Truth will out.
Versacehottie Posted December 20, 2016 Posted December 20, 2016 I also think it's a waste of your effort (anyone's effort is a limited resource) to put any energy toward telling her. Gather your energy together to find a good guy for yourself. Count yourself lucky that your sixth sense was helping you out about this guy. No one can predict exactly what will happen if you track down his wife and let her know things he is doing but you will definitely expend energy, time and effort. If she doesn't believe you or you somehow get dragged into a bunch of drama, you will be wasting more effort and time on a person who deserves none of your effort and energy. His wife might be a total innocent and person deserving of the truth but there is no real way to know what type she is now. Chances lean toward her not believing you, twisting things around and sapping your energy. And you actually never went out so yours is the easiest case to twist around. Needless to say, there are so much better things to be doing with your time. If your goal in dating online was to date and perhaps meet the love of your life, keep your focus on that. You will probably meet all varieties of disingenuous people because it can be a wide net online and dating can just be a disappointment sometimes but look at the silver lining--you've barely wasted any time on this bad guy--don't mess it up by wasting another second. That's her husband, her problem (sorry but if you weren't a virtual stranger I might have a different opinion). Good luck
Ruby Slippers Posted December 20, 2016 Posted December 20, 2016 Create an anonymous ID on Facebook. Send a link of his dating profile to his wife. leave it at that. Don't get further involved. Perfect solution. That pull you feel to let her know what he's up to behind her back is your conscience. If you were this woman, wouldn't you want to know? The point about it maybe being an open marriage is moot. If it's an open marriage and she's ok with that, she won't have a problem with the info.
smackie9 Posted December 20, 2016 Posted December 20, 2016 Keep in mind this an international forum. It may not be a felony where YOU live but in other parts of the world it's punishable by death. And how do most people feel about laws like that internationally? Radical and it infringes on people's rights. And in the musim world, it's the women that is punished not the men. An unmarried woman gets raped, she goes to jail for having sex out of wedlock.
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