What is the craziest thing an ex has done to you out of spite?

[Iamlostin]

For the most part we break up and hopefully thats the end of it. However, some exes can be childish and do stupid things out of spite. I actually have had an experience this past summer where an ex tried to communicate with someone who was my friend and tried to in a way create problems between her and I. And not to mention tried to hangout with her multiple times, luckily her and I have rekindled our friendship.

 

Out of curiosity for those who have had a breakup if there was any instance of this....what is the most ridiculous thing you or THEY have done to be spiteful, because I know sometimes one part of the party gets angry and wants to make the others life miserable, which is dumb. But I ask because as a psychology major I am studying a lot of social psychology and am very interesting in different ways that we play with our emotions or someone elses.

[DarrenB]

Hopefully you're feeling a lot better in regards to the situation now, Lost.

 

Most recent one attempted to get with a few of my (were) closest friends, I'm guessing because she knew it would somewhat 'trigger' me. Due to the amount of deceiving and deceit that was displayed by various people I didn't take the situation lightly as they knew it was not something to mess with. We got into heated arguments and yeah, it broke off a couple of friendships I had going on with one lasting over 5 years.

 

4 months down the line I've reconciled with 2 and became somewhat civil with them, but I no longer feel that strong connection with them for whatever reason. However others fell for the whole innocence card from her behalf and we haven't spoken since, nor do I think we ever will. Shame really. Win some you lose some.

[Iamlostin]

Hopefully you're feeling a lot better in regards to the situation now, Lost.

 

Most recent one attempted to get with a few of my (were) closest friends, I'm guessing because she knew it would somewhat 'trigger' me. Due to the amount of deceiving and deceit that was displayed by various people I didn't take the situation lightly as they knew it was not something to mess with. We got into heated arguments and yeah, it broke off a couple of friendships I had going on with one lasting over 5 years.

 

4 months down the line I've reconciled with 2 and became somewhat civil with them, but I no longer feel that strong connection with them for whatever reason. However others fell for the whole innocence card from her behalf and we haven't spoken since, nor do I think we ever will. Shame really. Win some you lose some.

 

 

You know what unfortunately I have to agree, women can and will sometimes do that. Me on the other hand, have made NO attempt to set foot near any of my exes close friends. I feel it is extremely wrong and disrespectful. Even before we were broken up..actually in the middle of us being together he always told me he would absolutely lose it if a guy friend or I tried to talk to one of his friends. It is wrong and off limits. However, in my life I can't tell you how many people have lost friendships over me and I never even attempted talking to these people in the first place!

 

 

 

Okay so this is crazy:

First man I ever dated, didn't work out, it was fine. He had a friend that I knew from meeting him through my ex and I would make no attempt to talk...but he did eventually leading to a good friendship but pushing for a relationship. That friendship wasn't ruined but of course dwindled. THAT GUY I was dating had his friends over one day and I met one of his friends. Eventually when that guy and I broke up HIS friend ended up really liking me as well as much as I protested to it because I didn't want problems I ended up giving in because he was great to me. And most recently and the oddest...my most current exes Pete (false name) I dated for TWO years however before dating PETE I dated his best friend Bill (false name) for three months. Not only were they friends of 27 years but NEIGHBORS as well. This was probably the one friendship that was ripped apart for two years.I guess Pete didn't like the way Bill treated me, and Pete was also not liking the way Bill used him whenever he needed him. So with a combo of that and 3 months of relentlessly trying for my approval regardless of my protest Pete did have my heart. However I was never doing it out of spite, I didn't want it in the beginning but I realized Pete wasn't going to let up. So we did enjoy a really good relationship obviously until now. **** Pete. and **** Bill.

[basil67]

Not to me - but my sister. Her ex through a molotov cocktail through my parents window when they were inside sleeping.

[Been]

We had a bad break up. I have her back everything she ever got for me and vice versa.

She contacts me and tells me she wants to give some things back to me that I forgot. I contact her and tell her to keep the items-do what she sees fit with them.

I get home and there's all these bags and crap all over my porch. She I guess decided that she wanted to give back everything to me. Include were groceries I guess I had bought-opened boxes of pasta,empty water bottles,open bread etc.

And a dog that I didn't ask for inside a crate with no food or water.

In an envelope was my engagement ring that she had ask for me to give back and a note saying I bought this ring for you I don't want it back!!!!

And I'm thinking what the hell would I want with an engagement ring???!!!!