BriaBri11 Posted December 18, 2016 Posted December 18, 2016 (edited) Hello I'm Bria, and I'm struggling with coping with my current break up. I've been in a long distance relationship for the past 9 months, and the last 30 days have wreaked havoc on me. I started to notice my boyfriend had become inconsistent and whenever he felt like the distance was too much he wanted to call it off. He would always come back and say he just had a weak moment and the distance got to him but he truly loved me. His behavior didn't really become abusive until I came to visit him for this birthday in October and we were in bed and I wanted to have sex and he shoved me away saying he wasn't in the mood. I packed my things to go to the airport, and he begged me to stay. I did and things got better until about 30 days ago. It was hard to trust him, and I asked if he was seeing someone else and he denied it repeatedly. I run a small business and had become overwhelmed with paperwork and inventory. I called him because I was a bit emotional and needed some support. His response? " I'm busy doing my homework." And this was when I walked away. All of this I brushed off as us hitting a rough patch. He begged and begged and begged me to come back, but now I had rules. If he couldn't respect me, I was out. I'll admit he worked hard to get me back and finally I gave in and we made plans for him to come visit. I noticed he'd become secretive though, very evasive and even a bit fake with me. He finally told me that in a weak moment when we weren't speaking he'd had sex with someone else. Naturally I LOST IT. I'd been so patient and forgiving, but that was the last straw I could bear. He wanted me to hear him out but I didn't feel like I should. He knew that this was his last chance with me, and that crushed me beyond repair. Even when he was inconsistent with me I NEVER spoke to another man let alone to sleep with one. We didn't speak for 5 DAYS. & he was already on top of the next woman. He wants me to believe he hasn't been seeing her for a while now, and I don't believe that at all. He hung up one me and blocked me from iPhone social media everything. I'm blaming myself for all of this and I'm struggling to heal. I'm realizing there was a lot of emotional abuse. I just feel broken. Edited December 18, 2016 by BriaBri11
Miss Clavel Posted December 19, 2016 Posted December 19, 2016 break out the champagne and celebrate the fact that you are well out of this! you are so lucky to have dodged this bullet i can't even tell you. he will come back and i for one hope when he unblocks you he finds he's the one that's blocked. from your heart and from your mind. stay away from him, he's a abusive cheating pig that's not worthy of you. you can do better and you must! good luck 1
Author BriaBri11 Posted December 23, 2016 Author Posted December 23, 2016 break out the champagne and celebrate the fact that you are well out of this! you are so lucky to have dodged this bullet i can't even tell you. he will come back and i for one hope when he unblocks you he finds he's the one that's blocked. from your heart and from your mind. stay away from him, he's a abusive cheating pig that's not worthy of you. you can do better and you must! good luck Thank you so much for this right now it's hard for me to see this beyond my own hurt but maybe eventually I will. Everyone has been telling me he wasn't a good person he was only pretending to be one.
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