LMNS Posted December 18, 2016 Posted December 18, 2016 My BF and I have been together for only one month so far. He lives over an hour away, but we only get to see each other about twice a month. Starting this Christmas, we are planning a two night getaway together. I suffer from really bad Anxiety which has been under control until recently. Even though i knew the answer, i had to ask my BF if he was totally fine with our holiday coming up. And i wasn't pressuring him to spend time with me, was i? He responded: It's all i'm looking forward to. I've been so depressed lately. I need something like this to help. Now, common sense, when i first read this text, i took it as a positive thing, but my over thinking and analyzing stepped in and now i'm not too sure. Am i over thinking this? Was it a positive answer (other than him being depressed of course)
smackie9 Posted December 18, 2016 Posted December 18, 2016 First off stop ask him such stupid questions....all you are doing is creating unnecessary anxiety to yourself, get what I am saying? If you want to beat this anxiety/paranoia, you need to stop questioning things to get reassurance. It's a bad habit and you need to break it.....it's a vicious cycle, it will keep happening until you change your behavior. 2
CommittedToThis Posted December 18, 2016 Posted December 18, 2016 You know what they say about depression, you can't let it get you down.
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