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Ex contacts me after a year, only to ignore me. What is up with that ?


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Her priority is her husband and child.

 

:( Ouch. Hits himself, head down and walks away.

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Ask yourself what kind of person would contact their ex once they get married?

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Ask yourself what kind of person would contact their ex once they get married?

 

I think a lot off people still stay in touch with their exes . It's not uncommon to be friends when you've reached true indifference. I was going to give it a go but her playing these games put an end to that.

 

Seriously no one is that busy they can't reply to a message within a month.

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She's probably just waiting for you to chase her an wondering why you didnt. Im a woman and ican attest to that.

 

What's the deal with this? Ive never felt the need to do this. Woman-only thing?

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I think a lot off people still stay in touch with their exes . It's not uncommon to be friends when you've reached true indifference.

 

Maybe, but I think in most cases, it's best for all involved to let all but the truest of friendships between former lovers wither away and die once one or both of the people involved is married.

 

Marriage is hard enough without former loves orbiting around, even under the guise of friends.

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:( Ouch. Hits himself, head down and walks away.

 

I know, it sucks, but this is her reality. Her life is already full with a husband and a child that no doubt consume the majority of her time. Everything else is secondary to that.

 

Whatever you are hoping or expecting from her isn't going to happen. Even if you are only looking for a good friendship, you are still wasting your time. Things have changed. In all likelihood she has forgotten all about your message by now and not given it a second thought.

 

Sometimes it is better to just let go. If you don't, you will only end up hurting yourself or being disappointed.

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I know, it sucks, but this is her reality. Her life is already full with a husband and a child that no doubt consume the majority of her time. Everything else is secondary to that.

 

Whatever you are hoping or expecting from her isn't going to happen. Even if you are only looking for a good friendship, you are still wasting your time. Things have changed. In all likelihood she has forgotten all about your message by now and not given it a second thought.

 

Sometimes it is better to just let go. If you don't, you will only end up hurting yourself or being disappointed.

 

I guess it's like when your own kids get married and have kids of their own . They will have little time for their parents.

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