Poppyolive Posted December 18, 2016 Posted December 18, 2016 I love your optimism, it's contagious I see you live in BC. I do too in Vancouver actually. Haha, thanks!! Yes, I'm in Vancouver too. East Van. Happy holidays. 1
ThisisIt606 Posted December 19, 2016 Posted December 19, 2016 She sounds spoiled... I knew of quite a few Asian girls in college who wouldn't spend a dime of their own money and their parents would give them EVERYTHING. Not only does your girlfriend have poor financial skills, she also sounds spoiled, selfish, and quite frankly rather useless in this relationship. She prob thinks it's great to "have a man" who pays for everything and doesn't believe she should/have to. You tried talking to her and it didn't work. Money is one of the major issues that tare couples apart. You have goals of education and moving out of your parents place I assume. Go back to working on those, don't let a baggage of a gf get in your way. You'll just grow to resent her more, be more in debt, and realize you haven't chipped away at your goals all because she's draining ( and you're letting her after you talked to her and she wouldn't change) your bank account. Move on. There are other girls out there who aren't selfish jerks and who will care about you.
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