NeNa_PaRa_ViDa0420 Posted July 16, 2005 Share Posted July 16, 2005 What are signs that your bf/gf is cheating on you? Any suggestions??? PLEASE TELL!!! Link to post Share on other sites
A Fly onThe Wall Posted July 16, 2005 Share Posted July 16, 2005 There are too many to list .. Tell us more about why you ask Link to post Share on other sites
LucreziaBorgia Posted July 16, 2005 Share Posted July 16, 2005 What sorts of things are you noticing that he's doing (or not doing)? Here are some basics: * secretiveness about phone, email, etc. when it wasn't a problem before * a new "friend" he brings up more often, and when asked insists "she is just a friend" when asked why he needs to spend time with her helping her with stuff, or 'listening to her problems' * acts different than usual - distant, irritable, silent, picks fights, fault finding * sudden interest in physical appearance - from grooming to body image, (starts to fix up like he did when you and he were first together) * time unaccounted for - a trip to the store takes three hours, stuff like that * goes in to work really early, or stays really late for no apparent reason * the sex changes - either it dries up, or becomes 'overdone' * lying or being vague when accounting for missing time * needing "time to himself" or "space" or needing a "break" * accuses you of cheating for no reason ... and so on. Link to post Share on other sites
Rosalind Posted July 16, 2005 Share Posted July 16, 2005 I have the book that lists the 180 red flags... Link to post Share on other sites
A Fly onThe Wall Posted July 16, 2005 Share Posted July 16, 2005 Originally posted by LucreziaBorgia * secretiveness about phone, email, etc. when it wasn't a problem before * a new "friend" he brings up more often, and when asked insists "she is just a friend" when asked why he needs to spend time with her helping her with stuff, or 'listening to her problems' * acts different than usual - distant, irritable, silent, picks fights, fault finding * sudden interest in physical appearance - from grooming to body image, (starts to fix up like he did when you and he were first together) * time unaccounted for - a trip to the store takes three hours, stuff like that * goes in to work really early, or stays really late for no apparent reason * the sex changes - either it dries up, or becomes 'overdone' * lying or being vague when accounting for missing time * needing "time to himself" or "space" or needing a "break" * accuses you of cheating for no reason Damn LB you had those on the tip of your fingers pretty fast.. Link to post Share on other sites
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