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Hi , there !

I have been recently texting with a girl for a couple of days and yesterday we went on a date. Between despatched texting i noticed that even if she was online she didt text mi back. So yesterday on a date I noticed that on she snapchat (thing on which we are texting) that she has a lot of friends and texting to many people and also(one of them) my friend,he got some same sneps as me. Buth i kinda have a big crush on she . So em wondering if should go out with her again, and maybe that she will understand that we cant have a long-term relationship like that. im asking for your opinion on what should i do, should i continue to date her and start hopefully new relationship or should i end it before it starts. Keep in mind also that I have a big crush on her.

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It sounds like what you're saying above is that you won't tolerate her having friends if she is in a relationship with you. Have I got that right?

 

Are you wanting to her drop all of her friends and concentrate all of her attention on just you? Just because you have a crush on her?

 

My advice would be to get to the bottom of why you believe that she should drop everyone she's known waaaay longer than she's known you--and she really doesn't know you. You've been texting for a couple of days and went on one date. You're not in a position at this time to demand she drop her friends for you, if ever.

Edited by kendahke
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You are not compatible.....don't bother with a second date.

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Posted (edited)

No you didt get me right ,i'm comforteble with her frends and all that stuf buth she is texting with other guys too atm. So if it will get serius i think that she will cheat on me so im ust afraid of that . Buth i can manage al her frends (guys or girls) thats not the problem.

Edited by ustarandomguz
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In my opinion you are low on her list of interests.....better bail out now.

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tnx i think i will do that

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