Five dates, no conversation yet [UPDATE Am I being too nice?]

[Sweetfish]

No not at all It was actually bothering me lol which is why I texted him to stop.

 

I think I just miss the company since I dno anyone here but atleast I know I did the right thing.

 

Nah not really, Im glad hes not calling and texting anymore because it was really getting on my nerves.

 

It's more of feeling lonely I guess since I literally dont know a soul here except his best friend.

 

Having my answer doesnt mean I cant post here and speak about it.

 

You posted here a million times about your ex. You had you answer but still wanted to talk about it

 

 

No..but your post are very nonchalant and very black and white. I think many of the people here who had HARD breakups are not going to sit well with your disposal of this guy. Remember, many people in this forum is the guy you dumped.

 

There is a sense of narcissism in your post. just my personal opinion. I've seen people use the word ego towards you in many different threads.

[Nadine123]

I think many of the people here who had HARD breakups are not going to sit well with your disposal of this guy. Remember, many people in this forum is the guy you dumped

 

The guy I ''disposed'' treated me with disrespect and made fun of me all the time. If people here have been dumped because of that then they deserved it. People can take things the way they want. Ive been dumped too and I never took any dumpers post in a bad way

 

There is a sense of narcissism in your post. just my personal opinion. I've seen people use the word ego towards you in many different threads.

 

Not one person has used that word against me in any of the post. There is a sense of being delusional and having no manners in your post but hey, that is just my personal opinion

Edited January 7, 2017 by Nadine123
forgot to bold

[Nadine123]

You asked what people thought. Someone answered your question. Why are you upset?

 

If you're "happy" your ex has left you alone, what feedback do you actually want? I'm confused.

 

Yes, I am ''happy''. Also, Im quite confused as in who said Im upset lol

Edited January 7, 2017 by Nadine123

[Nadine123]

Hi everyone

 

So I ended things with this guy I was seeing about ten days ago because he wasn't really treating me that well. I recognized the red flags and ended it. Since then, he's been calling me almost ten times a day. I blocked him on whatsapp texts ex but unfortunately we only have the option to auto reject calls here so I can when he called me. He stopped for two days and then started again.

 

He called me two days ago from a weird number and I picked up. He started apologizing and I told him I forgive him and that its okay. He wanted to see me that day I told him I cant and that maybe we can grab a coffee tmw. He didnt call all day yesterday or today and I cant help but be a bit annoyed.

 

I know you cant know what he's thinking but why would he do all of this and then when I finally agree to have coffee with him (as friends ofcourse) he would dissapear.

[basil67]

Why would he disappear? Because he wants you as a girlfriend and not just as a friend.

 

And as much as I applaud you for seeing the red flags and acting on them, I suggest you don't offer friendship to someone who wants more. It's really not fair on him.

[PinkPampies]

It's classic ego boost and to see if he still has you on his line. If he wasn't treating you well, stay strong and move on. There's no reason to be friends since you wouldn't want a friend to treat you poorly either. Good luck

[basil67]

This is the guy who was always making fun of you? Why would you want him as a friend?

[Nadine123]

Yes this was the guy. I wasn't really looking to be friends as in more of being good terms. Thank you, I try learning from my previous relationships and ended it instantly when i saw the red flags.

 

Should I text him and call him out on it or don't react at all? Im a bit annoyed he would do this to be honest.

[Zahara]

Yes this was the guy. I wasn't really looking to be friends as in more of being good terms. Thank you, I try learning from my previous relationships and ended it instantly when i saw the red flags.

 

Should I text him and call him out on it or don't react at all? Im a bit annoyed he would do this to be honest.

 

Why would you need to be on good terms with someone that treated you badly? You saw the red flags and you created the boundary. The next healthy step is to enforce it rather than start compromising it.

 

Stop having expectations of people when they have shown you who they are. You can't call someone out for behaving badly when you already know that they have no ability to treat you nicely. What did you expect -- for him to suddenly ride up on his white horse and behave appropriately?

 

This is not on him anymore. This is all you. You're surprised and annoyed that he's done it again?

[VeveCakes]

Yes this was the guy. I wasn't really looking to be friends as in more of being good terms. Thank you, I try learning from my previous relationships and ended it instantly when i saw the red flags.

 

Should I text him and call him out on it or don't react at all? Im a bit annoyed he would do this to be honest.

 

No, delete his number and be done.

[basil67]

Yes this was the guy. I wasn't really looking to be friends as in more of being good terms. Thank you, I try learning from my previous relationships and ended it instantly when i saw the red flags.

 

Should I text him and call him out on it or don't react at all? Im a bit annoyed he would do this to be honest.

 

So glad to hear you're learning from previous relationships!

 

Texting or calling would bring him back into your life. This is NOT a smart idea. Be thankful that he's gone and block him.

[Nadine123]

Update:

 

So he ended up calling and I told him that it wouldnt be a good idea to be friends etc. I called my telephone service and they told me a way to block him. If i see him somewhere out I will be polite but other than that I wont engage with him.

 

thanks everyone