Leah4Ever Posted December 15, 2016 Posted December 15, 2016 Hi so I'm new here and have a question about a boy. So both of us are seniors in high school and met through work. We exchanged each other's Snapchats and he started messaging me first one night and that conversation carried on for a long time. Then a few days later he messaged me first yet again and we spoke more and eventually it got to the point where he was shirtless and kinda playing the angles and sending more revealing pictures of himself while still carrying on a casual conversation. Last night I was the one to message him first and it was actually a picture that I had posted on my own story as well and he replied to it and said "Good luck! you look great". It was in reference to an event I had which I was dressed up for. However I recently learned that there apparently has been this girl he's been into since freshman year and he's obsessed with her and all of this, but it seems strained. She has a boyfriend of her own and work was different because it was just the three of us (We work with kids). She says that she knows he's into her and believes he still is, but now he's flirting with me, it seems and I need to know whether or not I should make a move and if he likes me or not? Thanks!
Gloria25 Posted December 15, 2016 Posted December 15, 2016 Let him make the move...PERIOD Just trust me on this one. 2
spiderowl Posted December 15, 2016 Posted December 15, 2016 Hmm, flirting and shirtless pics doesn't necessarily mean much. It means he is interested in flirting and possibly sex. It doesn't necessarily mean he is interested in a relationship. I think you'd have to see how he behaves towards you and take some time to get to know him. Just because someone thinks he is still keen on her, doesn't mean he thinks the same. But, at least you are alert to the possibility. I agree with the above poster that you should wait for him to ask you out rather than get too involved in online/mobile flirting. 2
Shanex Posted December 15, 2016 Posted December 15, 2016 Meet asap, see if you click, see if a relationship is possible, if not and you're up for it, go for casual.
Author Leah4Ever Posted December 16, 2016 Author Posted December 16, 2016 Thank you all for the advice! But why do you guys think I should wait for him to make the move? Just curious. And trust me, I don't plan on sending him nudes anytime soon haha.
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