Thatgirl117 Posted December 15, 2016 Posted December 15, 2016 This is my first time posting on this forum. My ex and I split 4 months ago, but we never properly " broke up". We have not spoken since that day, because he needed "space" and time to work on himself. I missed him everyday for a good month until I found out he was talking to a friend of mine. Their relationship escalated fast. I was not at school for a couple weeks due to personal reasons and when I come back they're already "official". . I got over the fact that we are not getting back together because I have his new gf on social media( because we used to be close), and he seems happy. That's all I've ever wanted for him so I let it go, and tried to focus more on me. Although we have not spoken, I see him with her at school, and even in public when he's not with her. I've seen him at least a good 5 times in public these past two weeks and mind you I live in a fairly big city. He even shows up in my dreams. I don't know why I keep seeing him and thinking about him, I've tried talking to other guys and keeping myself occupied but he doesn't want to leave my mind!! I don't know what else to do.
Chief1970 Posted December 15, 2016 Posted December 15, 2016 Hey, what's your age and the age of your ex? This way we can get a better sense of things?
Author Thatgirl117 Posted December 15, 2016 Author Posted December 15, 2016 We are both 17 going on 18, and seniors in high school. I know we're still young and there's a lot more to experience, but he was my first and I don't know why he keeps showing up everywhere.
stillafool Posted December 15, 2016 Posted December 15, 2016 It's because you are not over him yet. It takes time to get over your first love and it usually happens when you fall in love with someone else.
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