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Trying to move on/new confidence after nasty breakup.


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Hey everyone, just a background on my current situation:

 

http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/breaks-breaking-up/604445-i-just-can-t-understand-what-s-happened

 

Anyway, this is more of a coping/moving on post.

 

As you can see, I've been through an incredibly stressful situation. However, I'm now starting to move on and enjoy my life once again. I've been going out a lot more with friends, whether it be a couple of drinks at a pub, or even having friends over at my flat.

 

The weekend just gone I went away with my Mum and Step Dad to visit some old family friends. They both work at Centre Parcs and they got us in for free. I was introduced to a lot of their work colleagues, including many attractive girls. I spoke to a couple of these girls, and you know what, I felt really good for doing so! I never had confidence until I met my ex, and though confidence has been at an almighty low, the weekend did me the world of good. For example, we were having a drink in one of the bars and I went to the bathroom. I came back and walked past one of the waitresses. I thought she looked lovely so just gave her a little smile, much to my delight, she gave me a big smile back! I know it doesn't sound like much but to me it felt really good. Before leaving Centre Parcs I was very briefly introduced to another one of their work colleagues. I couldn't help but think how attractive this girl was. My friend said afterwards she would try and get this girl in contact with me sometime soon. Now don't get me wrong, another relationship is the last thing on my mind but it just felt so good making contact with these girls.

 

I must sound like an idiot! haha

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welcome back, signed, life.

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