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Hi,

This is a little different.

I'm a single mum, I went through a break up about a month ago, with a guy who was terrible for me. But it had been three years together.

Because there were so many ups and downs during those three years I've decided to tell my family and friends that I'm fine, there's only so many times I want to cry over the same guy to them.

It's been six days so far of zero contact. The last time we spoke he told me he'd been on a date the evening before, and asked for me back.

I said no. Realising it was all just another game. So I wished him all the best, despite my anger over everything, deleted all social media of mine and blocked about 13 different phone numbers ? All the ones he'd used to contact me in the past.

And I know I did the right thing, and I'm proud with how maturely I handled the situation with the other woman. I don't want to ruin it.

 

But with every day that passes I'm missing him more. Not anything about him, just the face and the warmth and the being.

But I'm trapped in a situation where I have to wear a big smile every day, and I have no one to talk to.

Luckily I kept the situation in a way where the children were not very close to him so I have a relief in the fact that they're okay.

I'm not really sure what the end goal to this is. A chat maybe, an accomplice.

Thankyou anyway!

Posted

doing the right thing can be so hard. but you've faced it and blocked him, kudos.

 

now you just have to do what i call, "run the drill". which is doing anything and everything that takes your mind off of him.

 

starting with re-organizing your kitchen, your closets and your wardrobe.

 

after all, you wanna be ready for the next good thing that going to come along, now you're free.

 

all the best

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