Author Butlerist Posted December 14, 2016 Author Posted December 14, 2016 (edited) Scooby-philly thanks for that update. You make a very good point. Now, there's something that I will mention here which I have just discovered whilst coming back from Germany today. I have literally been in shock for the past few hours and sort of want to post the news link that I found but didn't want to give her name out for now. The girl utterly lied!! I found out she had a different name (my own research from her own slip up). She is a former police officer who was jailed for 3yrs along with her lover (who was married to someone else) for insurance fraud. How on earth did she make up these stories?! I am so shocked man. Muslim girl who gave me this Spiel about not trusting others and who had an affair with someone out of wedlock (total sin in their religion)!! This girl apparently also slept with a guy when she was 19, by a guy 10yrs older, who told her he had cancer and and basically through feeling sorry for him did it. He was apparently manipulative and she didn't know her elbow to her own behind as she said and fell for his stuff. She got pregnant and had to get an abortion because he was this evil duche. Again, I have zero answers about whether this is true or not but I get a feeling you have all touched correctly on the disorder as again she was the 'victim'. I am in disbelief. Ex-COP and Jailed!! Who was your damn ex-husband you told me about all this time?!! (Tearing walls down here). Edited December 14, 2016 by Butlerist 1
Author Butlerist Posted December 14, 2016 Author Posted December 14, 2016 (edited) I've taken my post down after your edit. But Popsicle, seriously, I think perhaps I have not been clear or not expressed the stories well enough. Generally speaking, when someone likes someone else they don't keep on PUSHING for that person to be with them. They're respectful. I told her a gazillion times, i like you but it can't work. She persisted endlessly. Plus, who constantly interrupts conversations as if they don't give a damn about what you just said and says "you're perfect!"...."you're beautiful, you're so special to me", but like ALL OF the time. Honestly, I feel great about the fact that I have distanced myself amigo and that says something. Plus I wouldn't have come on here if I felt great! I came here to get reassurances of my own feelings and damn was I right today whilst sitting on that aeroplane and finding out the ridiculous story I have read. You end up missing the person, sure. But that's merely natural due to the habit, the jokes, the laughter and times you shared. The abused could also miss their abuser, doesn't mean that it's healthy and right. Edited December 14, 2016 by Butlerist 1
Popsicle Posted December 15, 2016 Posted December 15, 2016 I've taken my post down after your edit. But Popsicle, seriously, I think perhaps I have not been clear or not expressed the stories well enough. Generally speaking, when someone likes someone else they don't keep on PUSHING for that person to be with them. They're respectful. I told her a gazillion times, i like you but it can't work. She persisted endlessly. Plus, who constantly interrupts conversations as if they don't give a damn about what you just said and says "you're perfect!"...."you're beautiful, you're so special to me", but like ALL OF the time. Honestly, I feel great about the fact that I have distanced myself amigo and that says something. Plus I wouldn't have come on here if I felt great! I came here to get reassurances of my own feelings and damn was I right today whilst sitting on that aeroplane and finding out the ridiculous story I have read. You end up missing the person, sure. But that's merely natural due to the habit, the jokes, the laughter and times you shared. The abused could also miss their abuser, doesn't mean that it's healthy and right. That's great. You're good then. I read she was a fake person, but I don't agree that all expressive people are bad for you.
Author Butlerist Posted December 15, 2016 Author Posted December 15, 2016 I absolutely agree with you. Being expressive is fine and is totally healthy. It's just the way things are expressed when you know that it is 'off'. Like I said, when the neediness, in my case was so high (phonecalls every night until she falls asleep until 1am, without a thank you the next day), along with excessive expressiveness that suffocates you, is why I say it isn't healthy or begins to point towards a possible problem.
Popsicle Posted December 15, 2016 Posted December 15, 2016 I absolutely agree with you. Being expressive is fine and is totally healthy. It's just the way things are expressed when you know that it is 'off'. Like I said, when the neediness, in my case was so high (phonecalls every night until she falls asleep until 1am, without a thank you the next day), along with excessive expressiveness that suffocates you, is why I say it isn't healthy or begins to point towards a possible problem. I already said great. Then block her and stop thinking about her, if she's so crazy to you.
Popsicle Posted December 15, 2016 Posted December 15, 2016 indeed :laugh: You probably like expressive women too but will never admit it.
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