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Hi all. This is going to be a rather general question. I know every situation is different, but I'm just curious if anyone has any personal experience with this topic or opinions on it.

 

I just recently got out of a whirlwind relationship. Time-wise, it was very short, only about three months long, but the connection I had with this person was incredible. Objectively, we moved way too fast-- dreaming of our future together, rushing through all of the early milestones of a relationship, and making commitments to each other long before we had any business doing so. Lo and behold, after the initial wave of excitement and romance wore off, our relationship did not work out.

 

Generally speaking, I'm wondering what the coping process is usually like for these short, but intense and blissful relationships. Is it easy come, easy go? More difficult to get over because the relationship never really got passed the euphoric stage? I'm sure it depends on the individual relationship more than anything, but I'd love to hear general thoughts or anecdotes on this. Thanks in advance! :)

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Time varies for everyone. But it will certainly get easier when you accept that the honeymoon ended (for at least one of you) and at that point it was decided that what was left at the end wasn't something they wanted to stick around for.

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