Radil Posted July 15, 2005 Posted July 15, 2005 Just met a new lady (my neighbor) and I asked her out. We went out very casual..had drinks and dinner (no kiss at the end of the date...just a hug). So I spoke to her the next day and she had a wonderful time. So I asked her out on a second date and she said yes. We haven't firmed up which day because she is working late alot and she is very close to her family. Since I haven't been on the dating scene for a while I am trying not to screw this up. Should I wait for her to call me when she isn't so busy ? She seems in her emails she is interested in going out with me..but unless I call her it seems I will not hear from her even though she lives near me. Any advice would be great.
Marshbear Posted July 15, 2005 Posted July 15, 2005 If you have her number there is no problem in giving her a call to finalize your plans. If she is very busy, but seems interested in going out, then tell her you will wait for her call since she knows when she will have some free time. The only problem is that if she doesn't call you or you call and she gives you the run-around then let it go and find another. She is not interested....
Author Radil Posted July 15, 2005 Author Posted July 15, 2005 she always calls me back when I leave her a message. Last message I left with her was via email and I told her to let me know what day worked best for her since she is the busy one. I figured if she was interested then she will call me and let me know.
Opium Posted July 15, 2005 Posted July 15, 2005 Originally posted by Marshbear If you have her number there is no problem in giving her a call to finalize your plans. If she is very busy, but seems interested in going out, then tell her you will wait for her call since she knows when she will have some free time. The only problem is that if she doesn't call you or you call and she gives you the run-around then let it go and find another. She is not interested.... Agree!
Author Radil Posted July 18, 2005 Author Posted July 18, 2005 Ok she called me and came over to my place on Saturday and we ordered in and watch movies. She does touch me alot and sit in my space. Did I make a move to kiss her....no. I know she is the type of person that wants to get to know someone well first before getting involved. So I sent her a email and basically told her my thoughts. Just from the little signs of her sitting close to me, touching me and the sheer fact she came over to hang out with me I would think she is interested but I am no mind reader. Any thoughts ???
seabiscuit Posted July 18, 2005 Posted July 18, 2005 i wouldn't wonder to much if she likes you. because if you do, it might start looking like you are insecure and lack confidence. and from what i hear and read thats the biggest turn off. but what do i know i'm young, dumb, and full of......well you know the rest.
Author Radil Posted July 18, 2005 Author Posted July 18, 2005 Oh I don't when I am with her. I was just asking here because she is a hard read. I just didn't want to jump to any conclusions. If it works out great..if not I am sure we will be good friends.
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