GTR King Posted December 11, 2016 Posted December 11, 2016 Ok so I went on a date last Thursday... 29th Nov (Matched on Tinder) 2nd Dec (Exchanged Numbers) 7th Dec (First Date) Me 5ft 8 (Slim/Average) (26) I swim 3-4 times a week) (Had 2 girlfriends and few girls I have dated before) Her 5ft (Average) (25) (She dose yoga 1-2 times a week) (Never had a boyfriend before) We went to a bar for some drinks, date was at 7, (I got there 10 mins early) she was 20 mins late due to parking/late night Christmas shopping every Thursday (She lives 30/40 mins away from me) (Her idea to come to my town) Bought her small bunch of pink roses (From Sainsbury's £3.50) (She loved them and said no one has ever bought flowers for me before) and 2 drinks at the bar... Was a really lovely date, there was loads of talking (More her) we have quite a few things in common... At end of the date I thought wow that was one of the nicest dates I have been on and worth a 2nd date to see how things go... (Relationship material Don't know yet) We have planned this Friday to be our 2nd date.. (Near to where she lives) She loves Disney,Cats/Dogs Italian food/Crap with money e.g don't save any So what should I be doing now?? 1
Shanex Posted December 11, 2016 Posted December 11, 2016 Go for a second date, mate. Play it nice, like the first one. The first date was apparently awesome, attend the second date. The more you know each other, the sooner you'll know if you can expect a relationship with her. A restaurant maybe? Or drinks ? 1
Satu Posted December 11, 2016 Posted December 11, 2016 snip So what should I be doing now?? Nothing other than looking forward to another very nice date. Just enjoy. Take care. 1
Author GTR King Posted December 11, 2016 Author Posted December 11, 2016 I was thinking an Italian restaurant e.g Prezzo's etc Will see how 2nd date goes... We did have a lovely time.. She told me all the boys want her for S*X or cancel at the very last minute (That's why she not had a boyfriend) 1
Shanex Posted December 11, 2016 Posted December 11, 2016 She told me all the boys want her for S*X or cancel at the very last minute(That's why she not had a boyfriend) 90% of the free OLD sites men she has described right there. 1
Author GTR King Posted December 11, 2016 Author Posted December 11, 2016 (edited) So most of the men are like that?? I just wanna treat her right (Even if things don't go well) will tell her how I feel... I don't do S*X until we have been together for a few months/a year... She was my first date in ages (Hadn't been looking that much had time off from dating) Edited December 11, 2016 by GTR King 1
Dark Horse Posted December 11, 2016 Posted December 11, 2016 So most of the men are like that?? Also one thing to consider, that men she's rejected or ignored could have been looking for a relationship as well. It's just that the men that she chooses tend to be the ones who want to ***. 2
Author GTR King Posted December 11, 2016 Author Posted December 11, 2016 Ok thanks for that, but she probably didn't know they wanted S*X before she met them 1
smackie9 Posted December 11, 2016 Posted December 11, 2016 omg take her to the Disney store! it's so much fun, and I'm not even a fan. 3
Author GTR King Posted December 12, 2016 Author Posted December 12, 2016 You really think I should take her there??
alphamale Posted December 12, 2016 Posted December 12, 2016 So what should I be doing now?? don't buy girls flowers until you've banged them
Author GTR King Posted December 13, 2016 Author Posted December 13, 2016 What?? She loved the flowers, 2nd date is this Friday 7.30pm
bachdude Posted December 13, 2016 Posted December 13, 2016 omg take her to the Disney store! it's so much fun, and I'm not even a fan. Yes, take her someplace fun - more of an activity date where you two can be relaxed, laugh, and have a great time. Then take her to a "hole in the wall" restaurant, someplace interesting, unusual, off the beaten path, where you can laugh more about your date. It's a great way to get to know each other. Oh, and if the date goes well, go in for the kiss at the door step. And make sure she gets in safely.
Author GTR King Posted December 13, 2016 Author Posted December 13, 2016 Thanks we both driving to a town in the middle and going for food... Will make sure she gets to her car safely and will go for the kiss if it feels right... If the date goes well will do something more fun on the 3rd date
Author GTR King Posted December 16, 2016 Author Posted December 16, 2016 (edited) Update 2nd date went really well... She told me she has depression/anxiety (Not for ever hopefully) (I don't think it's that bad) and her arm pits were a bit wet half way thru the date We laugh a bit and had good conversations and she felt happy... so will see what happens next 3rd date will most likely be week after xmas Edited December 16, 2016 by GTR King
Author GTR King Posted December 21, 2016 Author Posted December 21, 2016 (edited) Update we have arranged 3rd date for next Thursday Late afternoon/early evening. Gonna go for food/cinema gonna take her to see the new Star Wars film (I have seen it) I wanted to take her and she wanted to see it... Not texted much today as she is busy with work... We did text loads yesterday.. Edited December 21, 2016 by GTR King
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