198711 Posted December 10, 2016 Posted December 10, 2016 My partner of 13 years left me in october, we werent getting on as he went out every weekend and never come home. I found out a week later that he had moved in with another woman and her child. It broke my heart. He swore to me that she was a friend but now after 2 months of begging and pleading with him to come home i think its confirmed they are together. Things were rocky and i kept saying i couldnt do it. But all i want is him back, i want him to love me and come home. I admitted my mistakes but when we were messaging one day he loved me,next day he hated me. One day he said he wanted to come home, next he said when he gets a flat we will talk, then he said that we dont work, that i done this. Up until last week when he blocked me. I have no way of contacting him. I feel so helpless,i am lost, i love him so much. I just want him to come home. I cant eat or sleep properly, if i do fall asleep i wake up having dreams about him. Im struggling to concentrate at work. I dont know what to do. Im living on hope that hes going to come home or contact me but the reality hes not i know i just dont know how to get through it. I feel sick and in so much pain
Dashottcalla Posted December 10, 2016 Posted December 10, 2016 From what you explained he probably won't come back.. It's best to let go of that hope.. He's telling you contradictory things but he seems pretty consistent with his actions.. His actions show that he doesn't want to come back.. He blocked you most likely because he doesn't want to be bothered with the back and forth any longer.. My advice is to just control what you can.. You are in charge of your happiness as well as your sadness.. You choose which one you want.. You holding on to this situation is creating your sadness.. Your attachment is creating your sadness.. Not all loves are meant to last, the same way you found love with him you will find in another.. It's important to focus on yourself at the moment.. It's important to find your bliss
BC1980 Posted December 10, 2016 Posted December 10, 2016 I would implement NC. He has gone off with another woman. Chances are, no, he won't come back.
Recommended Posts