I think he might have feelings or is coming back to me

[EssoJnr]

I started off as fwb with a guy over a year ago and when the whole 'relationship' got too unhealthy, we agreed to cease contact and also agreed to block each other on social media so we wouldn't be able to contact each other if we wanted to.

Throughout the fwb he never liked the thought of me with someone else (which was weird as we weren't committed to each other) and he went off with loads of other girls as well. He'd always come back to me. The blocking happened last Christmas. Saw him a few times over the summer as we have the same friends. He now has a girlfriend who he's in an open relationship with (I don't know the details and I don't really want to). He brought her to a gathering I had at my house over the summer, which automatically caused tension as this was the first time I'd seen/spoken to him since the blocking. He told me he was tempted to cheat on her with me which I immediately rejected- I wasn't about to be anyone's other woman. The other times I saw him he's always seemed frustrated, sexually and emotionally. He found out I'd been seeing someone he knew and told his friend he felt like it was 'a stake through the heart' (which is how you kill a vampire and don't understand the word choice but that's apparently what he said:laugh: ). His friends have had to continuously remind him he has a girlfriend which isn't good and they always have to do it when it comes to me.

A few days ago I found out he'd unblocked me on Facebook, which I believe is the first time in a year. He shouldn't have done this as now I'm concerned he may contact me again. I'm going to block him but it certainly worried me a bit. I really don't know what he feels towards me but wanted some impartial opinions on how he might be feeling?

[spiderowl]

In what way did the fwb relationship get 'too unhealthy'? Was it his choice to be fbw only, your choice, or both? If it was your choice, then maybe he liked you as more all along. If it was his choice, then perhaps he wants what he can't have. I would be wary of anyone who had other girlfriends while they were seeing me.