1Jessie86 Posted December 7, 2016 Posted December 7, 2016 A guy I've been seeing has been extremely swamped at work lately and having to work long hours, as most of us do. But I feel bad. What are some ways I can take his mind off things next time I see him? We've been dating for about month and we're not having sex yet. Any ideas on ways to be different?
breakupthrowaway663 Posted December 7, 2016 Posted December 7, 2016 Adrenaline always has a way of taking my mind off things and relieving stress at the same time. If he is really passionate about a sports team that's an idea. Snowboarding/skiing, the shooting range, paintballing, hang-gliding/ zip lining, go karting. Those all get my adrenaline going and are empowering at the same time. You seem like a compassionate person, but do remember his feelings are not your responsibility. 3
Miss Peach Posted December 7, 2016 Posted December 7, 2016 I would just give him a place to vent and listen if he wants to talk. I know when I'm really stressed at work I prefer low key activities. Many people I know like a few drinks too. Maybe something like drinks and a movie? 1
BaileyB Posted December 7, 2016 Posted December 7, 2016 Do something kind for him. Ease his burden if you can. My boyfriend is in a similar spot this week. I'm going to make dinner for him tonight, I've bought his favorite drink, and we're going to relax together and watch some tv tonight. 1
eightytwenty Posted December 7, 2016 Posted December 7, 2016 Small vacation somewhere.... Maybe a small get a away on the weekend.
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