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I think my girlfriend is a lesbian - best way to approach this?


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She accidently opened her search history earlier and didn't realise for a minute or so, curiosity got the better of me and i had a peak.. girl on girl porn, lesbian quotes, various female celebrities naked.

 

I'm shocked and hurt and I really dont know the best way to approach this without admitting that I viewed her private history.

 

What should I do?

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If she is gay, surely you must have suspected before discovering this, right? A former bf of mine married a woman years ago (he and I are still good friends), and she left him and replaced him with a woman. I began to suspect that there was "something different" about her, but I wasn't sure of "different how". Has she ever said something to you about it? Surely as her bf she must have said something to you about it. When I asked my old bf if he knew, he said he realized she didn't like a lot of girly things (wearing dresses, make up, etc.), and she asked a few times about doing a threeway with another woman. Now, she's very obvious. Was there anything like that before you found this?

 

As for now ... Well, you found something. What to do? Tell her you came across it, and ask what it means.

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Relax, everyone's GF is a lesbian. As long as she's not sending you independent signals that sth's wrong, just leave it alone and stop snooping her browser.

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I search for a lot of weird stuff... doesn't necessarily mean anything... I would say just ignore it unless she is doing something in real life which makes her look like a lesbian.

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Lots of women like lesbian porn. Nothing wrong with that. Even if she's bi, then why does it matter if she's with you?

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There has been research that shows that a lot of straight women watch lesbian porn. I mean I have done and it's because it's better sometimes with foreplay and a lot of straight porn is like "wham! bam! thank you mam!". ha anyway I won't go into too much detail but you get my point.

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Do you ever watch porn together? How about suggesting F/F action and see where that leads? Bisexuality basically means there's an attraction to both male and female individuals. Ppl confuse attraction to both sexes as an inability to have a monogamous relationship, which isn't true. That said, some ppl also have open relationships. Doesn't sound like your cup of tea...at least not yet. You are putting the cart before the horse tho. Many women, regardless of 'sexual identity,' watch F/F porn.

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Personally I strongly believe that the possibility of her being gay or bi is less than her being straight or bi curious. I know a lot of straight women watch gay porn. I've watched it and I'm as straight as a ruler.

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