DrReplyInRhymes Posted December 6, 2016 Posted December 6, 2016 If I had ever been married, and my wife had an affair, and the other guy approached me to apologize.. I would take him out for a drink and thank him for showing me my woman was not to be trusted. I would not hold it against him, unless of course, you considered him to be your best friend and he was screwing your girl all along or something like that. That's just not cool. In that sense, I'd rather have nothing to do with either of them, love or not.
wmacbride Posted December 6, 2016 Posted December 6, 2016 I'd sincerely apologize for my role in hurting her, but I'm sure she wouldn't want to hear it. If it's sincere, she may appreciate it in time.
sweet_pea Posted December 8, 2016 Posted December 8, 2016 Interesting question. It really depends on the setting. I'd probably roll my eyes at anything she may attempt to say and keep it moving.
aileD Posted December 8, 2016 Posted December 8, 2016 It's interesting the answers that come up. I know I have a totally different view now from a point of R than I did when we were in the middle of chaos
Arieswoman Posted December 8, 2016 Posted December 8, 2016 After all these years, I'd just ignore her and walk away. She got what she wanted and I hope she's enjoying it Even at the time I wasn't really mad at her - I was mad at him. She wasn't anything special, just available.
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