supercube009 Posted December 5, 2016 Share Posted December 5, 2016 So, I usually try for the first kiss on the 2nd date if things are going good between me and the woman. This is for a few reasons - - it establishes some romantic momentum and excitement - it confirms that there is mutual physical attraction and romantic interest - it tests to see if both people feel good physically without investing too much too soon What do you think if you tried for a kiss on the 2nd date and the woman turned away to avoid you? Would you take it as a sign of disinterest? How long would you wait? I have always thought that a woman with a high level of interest and strong physical attraction would not refuse a 2nd date kiss even if she was a conservative type. Thoughts? Link to post Share on other sites
Shanex Posted December 5, 2016 Share Posted December 5, 2016 You know, some relationships starts off with a kiss on the first date, I don't think it has anything to do with being conservative. We're talking kissing, not sex. It's a bit of a stereotype or myth to assume that more so called conservative people are uptight or prude when it comes to dating. Some of my craziest ladies came from very conservative families and background. Seems easy to answer that if the woman turn away your kiss she's not interested now why would have she waited for a second date? This never happened to me. Of course I've been on two kissless dates already but then was ghosted or ghosted on them because there was no further interest, compatibility etc. A second or a third date doesn't make you entitled of a kiss or a relationship, but at least she's giving you a second chance. I'd try to kiss her if this goes very well. If she smiles and kiss back, congratulations. Link to post Share on other sites
CryForNoOne Posted December 6, 2016 Share Posted December 6, 2016 What do you think if you tried for a kiss on the 2nd date and the woman turned away to avoid you? Would you take it as a sign of disinterest? Without a doubt. I wouldn't even bother with a third date unless you REALLY liked her. If she won't kiss you after the third date, definitely time to move on... Link to post Share on other sites
selinaluv Posted December 6, 2016 Share Posted December 6, 2016 If I am into a guy he wouldn't have to wait long. Part of it is seeing if we have that physical connection and a kiss can tell me a lot. But I am far from conservative... If I am not into him that way, he definitely won't be getting that kiss and I would know this by the second date. Link to post Share on other sites
risjurad Posted December 6, 2016 Share Posted December 6, 2016 I've been hearing 3rd date for decades now, but in today's faster paced world, 2nd date seems to be OK. I heard one female friend say she heard a guy go 9 dates without ANY kissing, which she advised that's WAAY too long. She'll think you're not interested in this case! Link to post Share on other sites
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