Kujath Posted July 15, 2005 Posted July 15, 2005 Hey I just got a call from my girl which we are on a break. She just called to talk to me and it was really awesome hearing from her, but then she is like i got to go cause she was going shopping. Like 4 hours later I heard from her best friend that my girl does not want a boy friend for a really lone time. I took that as I have been dumped. I even made her a card with poems on it but I guess it did not matter. Tell me what you think i should do, should I wait for her or just move on.
Swamp Posted July 15, 2005 Posted July 15, 2005 Just don't respond to her, call her, write poems for her, do anything nice for her, answer her calls or anything for a while. You can have her back if you want. She is just completely smothered by you right now. Back off for a month and don't answer calls or emails or anything. AT ALL.
griftymcgriff Posted July 15, 2005 Posted July 15, 2005 Yeh, im on a "break" too, my gf decided she thought i made her. even tho she has so many problems like trying to push me into a disagreement with her. She called me once. but i dont call her, i want to leave it! Like a few days ago she said she didnt know if she loved me...so i just shut my trap let her go on her holiday, the afternoon of my interview she didnt say she made up her mind about if she knew she loved me or no. , but after talking about my interview, she said "i have to go, i love you, bye" So yeah the whole Leaving them along thing is a great idea it gives them time to think i guess. She even Admitted to being a bitch to me. So things can have a way of working out if you let them go. Keep your chin up dude i know how you feel. Be happy about your health and other things, just try get her off your mind.
LucreziaBorgia Posted July 15, 2005 Posted July 15, 2005 As long as she is crushing on this other guy she isn't coming back. If it doesn't work out with this guy, she might be back but its doubtful. She told her friend to tell you that 'she doesn't want a boyfriend', and yet she is actively chasing another guy. You will want to cut her off cold. Don't let her contact you in any way, shape or form and don't contact her. That is the only way you will be able to start getting over her. She has already moved on to another guy, so its time for you to move on too.
soccorsilly Posted July 15, 2005 Posted July 15, 2005 Wait a second. You have agreed to be on a break from each other and she calls you saying that she just wanted to talk and because a friend passes along a rumor you feel you have been dumped? I am not following the logic. You are apart, she called you, she did not break up with you. It seems this friend is the one trying to do the breaking up. If you are on a break, continue it and let it play out. Don't give in to what her firend has said--she may have ulterior motives--she probably does. Maybe she is into you...maybe she has a brother or a friend that she wants to fix up with her friend...maybe she is just pissed that you took some of you GF's time away from her.... I might be tempted to call and say "hey it was great to hear from you again and I hope this is a move in the right direction to getting back together again, but we need to agree that if it is not, or it is not feeling right, that we are honest with each other and let the other know" EDIT: Where did you pick up that she wa crushing on another guy? A different thread?
LucreziaBorgia Posted July 15, 2005 Posted July 15, 2005 Originally posted by soccorsilly EDIT: Where did you pick up that she wa crushing on another guy? A different thread? Yeah... its pretty bad. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/showthread.php?threadid=66847 Hey everyone, I just got a call from my girlfriend witch currently we are on a break. She called me just like a little bit ago wanting to know if this guys was online. She tells me to go under her messenger name and asked me who is all on because her computer is broken, so i tell her who is all on for her list and i say this guys name who she has a crush on and like she said so he is on and crap like that. Then soon after that she is like well i am going to go and watch a movie, she didnt even want to talk to me. she talks and calls him constantly and she bearly calls me what does this mean.
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