Should I give him another chance?

[unsafe]

Ok I was dating a guy for 2 months. We have been friends for about 2 years. Anyway things were good. He is kinda flaky but not bad. But I was upset because about three weeks ago he was moving and work was getting very busy for him. I barely heard from him and he wasn't making time to see me. Then for the 4th he was suppose to come down and hang out with me and my friends. He ended up calling at 5 that night saying he was to drunk to drive. I was so upset. I was like I haven't seen this guy in over a week and he isn't coming now! Come on...make an effort if you like me right? Well anyway he asked me to call him later but I never did. Then he called that Wednesday and left a message but I didn't answer or call back. he asked if I was still alive? I blocked him on my buddy list and just left it alone. I figured if he likes me he would try harder and show me he cared. But nothing. He called twice left messages but I just let it go. Then I was on the aim yesterday and I decided to unblock him to see if he would talk to me. I really liked him but I figured he wasn't interested in me. He imed me and asked where I had been? I was like don't play stupid with me. He said he wasn't that he was wondering why I was ignoring him? I was like I am pissed you stood me up on the 4th of July. He appolized like 5 times saying his friend wouldn't let him drive cause he had a few drinks. I said well then you shouldn't have drank. He was like your right. It was very wrong of me. I am just the kind of guy that hate planning stuff. I was like well if you wanted to hang out with your friends you should have just told me. He said what makes you think I wanted to hang out with my friends and not you? I said because you never showed up. He said I am sorry really..I tried to leave I did. I told him nothing will make that go away. I was hurt and I don't know what I feel about it anymore. He said that he misses me and talking and hanging out. I was like ok. He asked if I was over him? I said well I really liked you. He said I get it past tense I get it. Ok well if your over it what can I do? I said well you know actions speak louder then words. He said thats what I like to hear now your getting it. He said I want to see you so I can show you the actions. He wanted to see me last night but I had plans. So I couldn't. He was upset cause he said he missed me. But I wasn't about to break plans for a guy that stood me up. I know he called and everything but it felt horrible. So I told him that I would see him Friday night and give him another chance. I don't know what to do?

[kimmi46]

Give him a second chance. But not a third. Communicate to him that it is very important to you that the time you do get to spend together is important and desired by you. Let him know that when he doesn't make your planned meeting times that it makes you feel that you are not important in his eyes. Give it a shot and best of luck to you.