delajoyajoshua Posted December 4, 2016 Posted December 4, 2016 I broke up with my ex about two months ago. She blocked me on all social media but I never did I honestly didn't care. Recently she liked my picture took me off blocked and is checking my Instagram stories daily and she's not my friend. It's kinda annoying the **** ouT of me like what is she trying to get out of this? AND my other question is should I block her or that would send a message that I care or should I just ignore and not block her. 1
kel224 Posted December 4, 2016 Posted December 4, 2016 Were you the dumper? In my opinion, it's best to do nothing and show indifference. But if you need to heal and you're tempted to check out her profile, blocking her might help. 1
Author delajoyajoshua Posted December 4, 2016 Author Posted December 4, 2016 Were you the dumper? In my opinion, it's best to do nothing and show indifference. But if you need to heal and you're tempted to check out her profile, blocking her might help. I wasn't the dumper no. She broke up with me. Also a month ago she sent me a message with old pictures of us and saying how we looked happy and whatever. 8 didn't reply 1
Survivor12 Posted December 4, 2016 Posted December 4, 2016 If you don't want her contacting you & since it's annoying you that she's checking up on you social media, block her. If she's not in your life, what she may think should be of no concern to you. 1
Slimtripper Posted December 4, 2016 Posted December 4, 2016 It does sound like she wants to get back with you but is doing in a really cowardly and cruel way. If u don't want her back then block her. If u do want to reconcile then I would straight out ask her what she wants. If she says anything other than she wants u back, then still block her. She doesn't sound like a keeper tbh and once she does get u back will probably just dump u later on again 2
Satu Posted December 4, 2016 Posted December 4, 2016 This is my take on NC: *No direct contact. *No sending or receiving of messages. *Block any means she might use to contact you. *No replies to anything that gets through your blocks. *No indirect contact through third parties. *De-friend or delete her from all social media. *No monitoring of her on social media. *No 'little birds' feeding you news. *Tell people that you don't want to know anything about what she is doing or saying. Take care. 2
JohnnyStreet Posted December 4, 2016 Posted December 4, 2016 I broke up with my ex about two months ago. She blocked me on all social media but I never did I honestly didn't care. Recently she liked my picture took me off blocked and is checking my Instagram stories daily and she's not my friend. It's kinda annoying the **** ouT of me like what is she trying to get out of this? AND my other question is should I block her or that would send a message that I care or should I just ignore and not block her. She's confused and might be regretting the breakup! If you truly love her and know that she feels the same, then give it a shot by having a meaningful convo and work things out. If you are indifferent and don't really have any feeling for her, then walk away and go NINJA NC! This means you disappear from her life completely...no likes, texts, calls, accidental run-ins, talking to friends, etc. Btw, how long were you guys together? Was it a bad breakup?
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