phoenix333 Posted July 14, 2005 Posted July 14, 2005 I feel sort of numb, like a suspended state of disbelief. Is my relationship over? I don't even know! She is taking space, and here I am dangling in limbo land wondering what went wrong and when and how. My stomach is turning, I feel awful, I feel half awake and half asleep! My chest hurts, my heart actually hurts. She told me how much she loved me, adored me completely, etc, etc, and then less than 12 hours later she needs space? Someone please take the knife out of my back!
westernxer Posted July 14, 2005 Posted July 14, 2005 Deal with the shock, mourn if you have to, but don't call her. No matter how hard it is, don't call her. And don't let her feed you bullsh*t about becoming friends. You don't want that, period. Oh yeah, and don't forget to breathe...
Author phoenix333 Posted July 14, 2005 Author Posted July 14, 2005 Thanks. I won't call her. I know not to make myself look clingy or desperate. We were friends first, and there is no way I could ever go back to being friends. I don't think she would use the 'let's be friends' line on me, but up until yesterday I never in the world thought I would hear the words 'I need space'.
westernxer Posted July 14, 2005 Posted July 14, 2005 It happened to me once, too... I never thought she'd do something like that. What did I do? I told her it was over, right then and there. No friendship, no phone calls. Nothing. She never thought I'd do something like that. I guess the two of us were pretty numb that evening, but I meant every word I said, and she knows that now... I don't regret it one bit.
scared shy Posted July 14, 2005 Posted July 14, 2005 I feel sort of numb and sick and everything else you mentioned. NC is the best thing, I think however I will have to hide my phone from myself when I go out on the weekends... sending bitter text messages is something I can't seem to stop myself from doing after 2 x 10 cocktails...
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