ChaseYng2005 Posted December 3, 2016 Posted December 3, 2016 So I started talking to this guy I met on some obscure website called socialgratis.com. It is an odd situation. I saw him post an ad on whisper for his profile on socialgratis. I contacted him on whisper and I checked out his profile and it all seems legit, but just to good to be true. He has a Facebook too, and we talked on the phone. But when I asked to do a video chat, he said he wasn't able to do that until later and that was two days ago. And he hasn't mentioned it again. He wants to meet up tonight and the drive is 20 miles. To meet or not to meet??
LostOnes05 Posted December 3, 2016 Posted December 3, 2016 Video chat first...it's easy to set up a profile and not be that person. Safety first. I'm a guy and if a woman doesn't want to video chat or something my spider sense goes off. Good luck but if it doesn't feel right, it's probably not.
central Posted December 4, 2016 Posted December 4, 2016 There's little risk if you meet in public and can park where there are people around. What if he is all he seems to be, but you decide not to meet because he doesn't like video chat? If you meet, you'll know for sure. Just use reasonable caution, but lack of video chat isn't necessarily any kind of red flag.
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