If I were to find a woman who has never had her first love, would it be hard to...

[PuddleofTears]

If I were to find a woman who has never had her first love, would it be hard to get her to fall madly in love with me?

 

I am 22 and I want to only give my heart to a woman who had never had her first love. Meaning, she has never had a romantic bond with another guy before, especially when she was younger.

I have never had my first love either.

But if I were to find a young adult women who has never been in love or had a romantic bond with a guy before, would it be hard to get her to fall madly in love with me like I would with her?

Because if a woman hasn't had a first love as a young adult, doesn't that usually mean it is hard for her to develop feelings towards guys?

[smackie9]

Sorry but you are looking for what does not exist. Even in childhood we learn to fall in love, say like a teacher or a character in a movie, or a celebrity, classmate, a friend, etc.

 

For someone that hasn't been able to love or be in love is someone who lacks empathy or has a sychopathic/narrisitic personality.

 

What would be best for you is to get over your insecurities, and grow a little more experience with relaiotnships and learn to accept no one can 100% own someone's heart.

 

People just fall in love organically, it cannot be wished or forced. It just happens.

[Sunkissedpatio]

You could drop hundreds of dollars on a matchmaker and see what they can come up with. Though I don't know how anyone would even qualify "someone who claims to never have fallen in love before"?

 

As Smackie said, you are better off overcoming this and accepting that you might not get exactly what you wish for.

 

 

It's such an odd request... I'm curious.... Would a virgin do? Even if she had been in love before? Or is it the feelings part that concerns you most?

[PuddleofTears]

Sorry but you are looking for what does not exist. Even in childhood we learn to fall in love, say like a teacher or a character in a movie, or a celebrity, classmate, a friend, etc.

 

For someone that hasn't been able to love or be in love is someone who lacks empathy or has a sychopathic/narrisitic personality.

 

What would be best for you is to get over your insecurities, and grow a little more experience with relaiotnships and learn to accept no one can 100% own someone's heart.

 

People just fall in love organically, it cannot be wished or forced. It just happens.

 

 

I don't count crushes. I am talking about romantic bonds.

[PuddleofTears]

You could drop hundreds of dollars on a matchmaker and see what they can come up with. Though I don't know how anyone would even qualify "someone who claims to never have fallen in love before"?

 

As Smackie said, you are better off overcoming this and accepting that you might not get exactly what you wish for.

 

 

It's such an odd request... I'm curious.... Would a virgin do? Even if she had been in love before? Or is it the feelings part that concerns you most?

 

I don't care about her sexual history. All I care about is romantic bonds she has had, especially when she was young.

[NuevoYorko]

Have you ever "thought" you were in love?

[eightytwenty]

You can't make someone love you, or fall in love with you... Love potions would be the only way in this case.

 

 

Doesn't matter if she loved someone first, it's the last person that matters.

[Satu]

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[basil67]

You can't get someone to fall in love with you. And finding a 22yo who's never been in love would be difficult too.

[Redhead14]

If I were to find a woman who has never had her first love, would it be hard to get her to fall madly in love with me?

 

I am 22 and I want to only give my heart to a woman who had never had her first love. Meaning, she has never had a romantic bond with another guy before, especially when she was younger.

I have never had my first love either.

But if I were to find a young adult women who has never been in love or had a romantic bond with a guy before, would it be hard to get her to fall madly in love with me like I would with her?

Because if a woman hasn't had a first love as a young adult, doesn't that usually mean it is hard for her to develop feelings towards guys?

 

I don't think that it would necessarily mean it's hard for her to develop feelings, it may simply mean that she hadn't met the right guy who sparks those feelings.

[Sweetfish]

If I were to find a woman who has never had her first love, would it be hard to get her to fall madly in love with me?

 

I am 22 and I want to only give my heart to a woman who had never had her first love. Meaning, she has never had a romantic bond with another guy before, especially when she was younger.

I have never had my first love either.

But if I were to find a young adult women who has never been in love or had a romantic bond with a guy before, would it be hard to get her to fall madly in love with me like I would with her?

Because if a woman hasn't had a first love as a young adult, doesn't that usually mean it is hard for her to develop feelings towards guys?

 

 

 

Am I the only person who is actually getting what this guy wrote?

 

As much as you may appear to seem romantic or gentle, Im calling you out or thus let me rewrite you post.

 

I do not trust women.

I believe most women will fall for another guy.

How do I find a woman, who will not jump ship?

I will do anything and everything for this woman as long as she is faithful

If she has not experience another male will that me she will be minds forever?

[PuddleofTears]

You can't get someone to fall in love with you. And finding a 22yo who's never been in love would be difficult too.

 

She could be 18 or 19.

 

What I mean is would she be able to fall madly in love with me like a teenager falling in love for the first time? Just as intensely

[NuevoYorko]

 

What I mean is would she be able to fall madly in love with me like a teenager falling in love for the first time? Just as intensely

Well, maybe, if you are everything she wants in a man. What are you offering?

 

Of course most of us experienced a first love that didn't last very long, so there's that.

[smackie9]

She could be 18 or 19.

 

What I mean is would she be able to fall madly in love with me like a teenager falling in love for the first time? Just as intensely

Find yourself an ugly girl

 

 

A pretty woman makes her husband look small

And very often causes his downfall

As soon as he marries her, then she starts

Doin' the things that will break his heart

 

But if you make an ugly woman your wife

You'll be happy for the rest of your life

An ugly woman cooks your meals on time

An she'll always give you peace of mind

 

If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life

Don't make a pretty woman your wife

So from my personal point of view

Get an ugly girl to marry you

[elaine567]

Find yourself an ugly girl

A pretty woman makes her husband look small

And very often causes his downfall

As soon as he marries her, then she starts

Doin' the things that will break his heart

 

But if you make an ugly woman your wife

You'll be happy for the rest of your life

An ugly woman cooks your meals on time

An she'll always give you peace of mind

 

If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life

Don't make a pretty woman your wife

So from my personal point of view

Get an ugly girl to marry you

 

With music -

[smackie9]

I was thinking more like Trini Lopez

[basil67]

She could be 18 or 19.

 

What I mean is would she be able to fall madly in love with me like a teenager falling in love for the first time? Just as intensely

 

Hehe, at 18 and 19, I was with the second boy that I ever loved. My daughter is 17 and with the second boy she loved...and most of her friends are already experiencing love.

 

Would she be able to fall in love with you? If the two of you clicked, why not? But the odds of you meeting a girl who's never been in love AND having her fall in love with you are low. Love really isn't that easy to find.

[basil67]

Your posts are familiar. Are you going to start talking about how first teenage love is pure, and remains the most intense and unforgettable love? If so, your responses will be the same as when you used to post under a different username.

[Satu]

Girlfriend Wanted

 

Must be 18 or 19

Must fall madly in love with me like a teenager falling in love for the first time

Must be a teenager falling in love for the first time

Must have never had any romantic experiences with any other man

Must never have had strong feelings for any other man

Minor crushes not necessarily a disqualification

 

Submit applications to Santa Claus, by the 24th of December 2016.

 

(He has my address and will forward.)

[Satu]

Your posts are familiar. Are you going to start talking about how first teenage love is pure, and remains the most intense and unforgettable love? If so, your responses will be the same as when you used to post under a different username.

 

The poster you speak of fell foul of the law, as you might remember.

[Versacehottie]

You are getting too caught up in something that really won't matter if & when you meet the right one.

[spiderowl]

You can fall in love intensely at any age. Even if you have been in love before and in a relationship before, you always tend to believe your latest love is the most special. You would not have fallen in love with them otherwise. There is a difference between being in a relationship with someone and being in love with them.

 

As other posters have said, you can't make anyone fall in love with you. I am not sure why you would want someone who has no experience, unless you found that threatening in some way. Maybe you believe a first love would be more genuine? If so, what you need to look for is a genuine person not necessarily an inexperienced one.