My Ex Gf Says She Has No Feelings For Me, But We Kissed? Why?

[randomtx88]

I saw my ex gf on Wednesday after almost 3 weeks of NC. She broke up with me a month ago. She has been really stressed with work and family in the past weeks, so I decided to go NC for a bit before trying to reach out to her.

I asked if she's willing to try to go out again and take things slow but she says she doesn't want to right now. She said that she doesn't feel the same for me anymore and she can't say for sure if we'll get back together one day or not.

 

We broke up because I wasn't comfortable with her close friendship with her ex. And when I asked her to stop talking to him, she felt pressured and after a few arguments over that issue she asked to take a break. She wanted time and space. I tried to convince her we could work this out, gave her some time and space, but after that she decided to break up.

 

After our talk on Wednesday we hugged for a while and then we kissed. Why would she kiss someone she doesn't have feelings for?

 

Monday is my birthday. I guess she'll reach out. Is it wrong for me to hope that she comes see me that day? She knows I'm not going out and celebrate. She knows I'll be at home.

After spending almost every single day together for 7 months (except this past month where I only saw her like 3 times), is it wrong for me to hope that she comes see me and not just send me a happy birthday text?

[Jimmyjackson]

Two things really stand out here. First, she told you she has no feelings for you, in my experience these never return. Secondly, she has a close relationship with her ex = feelings for him.

 

Cut your losses man, if she wishes you happy birthday just say thank you and leave it at that.

[LostOnes05]

Even better....block her number, email, etc. She kissed you because she wanted to feel validated and needed the ego boost. Cut contact and try to get over her. Best of luck.

[VeveCakes]

Honestly it would be better for you if she didn't.

 

The relationship has ended and she does not feel for you. Why do you want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with you....

 

I would cut all contact. Block her...and start the healing process. A visit or text will just prolong the pain.