Pimbolie94 Posted December 2, 2016 Posted December 2, 2016 Hi everyone, as you might know i've posted about my recent breakup. I've gotten amazing advice and i want to thank everyone for their wise words! Guess what: my friend told me she found out my ex is on dating sites (she is on dating sites and she found him when she was going through random profiles) around two weeks ago. She only told me now because two weeks ago, i was still very sad and emotional about everything. She said she decided to tell me now because she saw that i was getting happier and focussing on myself more. You know what? I don't even care that much that he is on dating sites! My first reaction was (and still is) if he thinks that is what he needs now, than so be it. It actually says nothing about me or how i was as a girlfriend. It does say everything about him, but i actually don't even care. I try to make myself happy and he might think he needs someone else to be happy. okay, that is his choice. I was kinda confused that this thought was going through my head. Like woah, im thought i would be devestated, but i'm not... Im also proud of myself and wanted to share the ''good'' news with you guys . My beloved grandmother passed away last week and now more than ever i realise: life is to short to grieve about someone who treats you bad and doesn't love you and doesnt care about you. I really hope that this is the start for a new beginning for me. I hope i will not fall back in the process in a few days (as i only heard the news today but already a few hours ago). But the feelings is different, i feel more secured that i'm not that bothered. I will continue to focus on myself, my family and my friends. That what i really want now 3
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