Newcitygirl Posted December 1, 2016 Posted December 1, 2016 I have not been in my new city for even two months. The old me wants to date one guy at a time. But the new me wants to explore all options in the city. I cannot go exclusive with one guy at this point. I feel like I'd be missing out on this new city experience. Background: I have been single for over 2 years. Best way to date multiple guys at once or until I find the one?
jen1447 Posted December 1, 2016 Posted December 1, 2016 Is there more than one way? Just date em and have fun! 1
eightytwenty Posted December 1, 2016 Posted December 1, 2016 Yep have fun till you find the right one you want, then drop the rest..
Gaeta Posted December 1, 2016 Posted December 1, 2016 You do as you wish but be upfront with people you date. Once you meet someone you are interested in dating exclusively you will feel it in your gut, you won't have to ask yourself 1000 questions about it. I have multi-dated a lot but only short term. Never more than 3-4 dates. Beyond that if you don't tell the man you are only looking for casual you are misleading him. Treat people the way you'd like to be treated. Be honest about your intention. 2
winny Posted December 1, 2016 Posted December 1, 2016 Multiple dating, casual sex, friends with benefits -- whatever you do... make sure the other person is also on same page... do not mislead anyone. Have fun n be safe!!
Miss Peach Posted December 1, 2016 Posted December 1, 2016 I assume everyone is dating others unless it's talked to. This is especially common on OLD. If you think you want to build multiple relationships, perhaps look into poly?
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