Author ElizabethIII Posted December 2, 2016 Author Posted December 2, 2016 I realize it all sounds pessimistic but if he had come back and seemed remorseful and really started putting in effort to get to know you properly, I would think differently. Rather, he's back and has given you all these disclaimers so you don't expect much from him and he doesn't have to put much into it. Proceed at your own caution. He did also apologize lots and explain himself and seemed genuinely remorseful. But then you wonder about the sincerity of it.
Author ElizabethIII Posted December 2, 2016 Author Posted December 2, 2016 And let's say because of whatever reason you want to take the casual route... you will find 100s of guys readily available for that... why choose this ghoster???? But the definition of casual speaks for itself. A casual relationship is one where you dont have to worry about contacting the other etc.
winny Posted December 2, 2016 Posted December 2, 2016 But the definition of casual speaks for itself. A casual relationship is one where you dont have to worry about contacting the other etc. I don't think so, even in a casual relationship you should keep people on same page as to what your intentions are. You cannot just randomly disappear... unless you are a douchebag then you would, but if you are not, you would at least thank them and tell them you are ending it. 2
Author ElizabethIII Posted December 2, 2016 Author Posted December 2, 2016 I don't think so, even in a casual relationship you should keep people on same page as to what your intentions are. You cannot just randomly disappear... unless you are a douchebag then you would, but if you are not, you would at least thank them and tell them you are ending it. Yeah. He did apologize and give me reasons almost as if he was saying he would have been in touch but for that. But yeah yeah heard it all before. We actually got to know each other much much better this time. Talked alot more and had more fun. As I said I have some issues at the moment and they were at the forefront of my mind when i first met him. I am doing alot better now though. So much better. This time he made some really kind comments and said that I seem like a totally different person to the one I met: much happier and fun. I said yes, this was the real me and that I was just under a lot of stress when I first met him. So I do also wonder if my behavior when we met had anything to do with him not being as keen. But equally I am not about to start blaming myself for it.
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