PinkPampies Posted December 1, 2016 Posted December 1, 2016 Would you give your business card to a woman you're interested in? Reason I ask is I met a guy at my job, we chatted,mild flirting, etc. He invited me to some event regarding my kids. Not like an entertainment event, like a drug awareness event. When leaving, he gave me his card and told me not to leave it at work because it was for me. He didn't say to call him or didn't ask for my number. I hate guessing games. Is this like a "call me I'm interested in you" ploy or just giving his card out?
Shining One Posted December 1, 2016 Posted December 1, 2016 This sounds like he's interested. He emphasized that the card was for you.
Pete2304 Posted December 1, 2016 Posted December 1, 2016 Would you give your business card to a woman you're interested in? Reason I ask is I met a guy at my job, we chatted,mild flirting, etc. He invited me to some event regarding my kids. Not like an entertainment event, like a drug awareness event. When leaving, he gave me his card and told me not to leave it at work because it was for me. He didn't say to call him or didn't ask for my number. I hate guessing games. Is this like a "call me I'm interested in you" ploy or just giving his card out? Get your coat......you've pulled! Seriously, yes of course he's interested!!! 1
Author PinkPampies Posted December 1, 2016 Author Posted December 1, 2016 Ughh then why not just ask me? I'd feel like an idiot calling him and saying, "you gave me your card..."
joseb Posted December 1, 2016 Posted December 1, 2016 Maybe he didn't want to overstep bounds too much by obviously asking you on a date in a work setting Maybe he's afraid of rejection, so gives his card instead to see if you are interested. But yes, I'd assume he is interested based on this. 1
Sunkissedpatio Posted December 1, 2016 Posted December 1, 2016 Ughh then why not just ask me? I'd feel like an idiot calling him and saying, "you gave me your card..." Because then he has to do all the work and he still doesn't know where you stand. Call him and ask him about the drug awareness program. That's what I would do. Don't say, "you gave me your card so..." Call him to discuss the program, the event sounded interesting, tell me more.." Even if you don't give a sht. about it Be cool. If he is interested in you he'll make sure to make conversation beyond that. If he is a good sales guy for his evebt and is just using his charm to recruit interest, you'll know.
LargoLagg Posted December 1, 2016 Posted December 1, 2016 Ughh then why not just ask me? I'd feel like an idiot calling him and saying, "you gave me your card..."Well then, call and say, remember me? We met at my work and ....
TheTraveler Posted December 1, 2016 Posted December 1, 2016 Ughh then why not just ask me? I'd feel like an idiot calling him and saying, "you gave me your card..." Agree. It's a passive and weak way of asking you out. He should've just manned up and asked you for your digits. I'm sure he will have a good excuse if you decide to contact him
ltjg45 Posted December 1, 2016 Posted December 1, 2016 Even in a work setting, if I was romantically interested in a woman, I wouldn't give her my business card. That makes no sense unless I want to continue talking to her in a work-related sense. Like others have said, it looks like he is interested in you but that is a weak way of showing it.
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