Miss Peach Posted December 1, 2016 Posted December 1, 2016 I need to break up with a guy that isn't doing it for me. (For those who followed my other posts it is to end my poly relationship.) We dated technically just over a month but only went on about 5 dates and the reason for the breakup is that we can't seem to find any time to get together and communication is lacking. I would rather spend my time with someone else. Texts even are very sparse and sporadic to where it feels like a slow fade. Prior to communication going downhill he had expressed interest in being a BF. I know he's still seeing his other GF. We've met its all in the open. I just want it to be over and done with. I've been texting for several days asking for a time to talk. I am getting responses but not to that. Just comments about getting together soon and being busy. He won't pick up his phone and text responses are sporadic and often many hours after. Is a text OK in this scenario? I want it done but I don't seem to be getting an opening to do it properly by phone or in person. 1
Methodical Posted December 1, 2016 Posted December 1, 2016 You've attempted to contact him via a phone call and in person. He is the one limiting your options. Texts are sporadic and evasive. So, given these circumstances, I'd say absolutely. 1
BlkVelvet Posted December 1, 2016 Posted December 1, 2016 I think a text is appropriate in this scenario. It was one a month and he won't meet or pick up the phone. just let him know you're moving on and if he wants to talk about it he can contact you. 1
Author Miss Peach Posted December 1, 2016 Author Posted December 1, 2016 Thanks for the confirmation. I got the sense both of us weren't in anymore but I like the finality of a breakup rather than fading. Especially since I might run into him again I don't like the idea of that. I sent it off this morning. Got back a "I sort of was expecting this but would love to keep in touch" type of response. 1
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