My Ex blocks me and unblocks from whatsapp all the time. what the hell?

[rov]

Hi, I dumped my ex 6 months ago , we lasted 10 months together. I dumped her because she was acting very y at the end of the relationship, she was a drama queen. I studied business but my passion in life has always been music and she didn't want me to commit my life to music, that is what I plan long term and this issue gave us many problems.. She was needy and clingy all the time in the relationship, this was one of the reasons that I dumped her. When I dumped her 6 months ago I didn´t felt any pain. I started dating other women and I was fine but now I started to miss her a lot and I saw she is dating a new dude. When we broke up she begged me to for reconciliation a month later but I didn´t want that. I told her that we needed time apart to fix the issues that lead to the breakup and that we could start dating again taking things slow, she didn't like the idea because she wanted reconciliation immediately. Well, the thing is that last week I reached out to her for the first time in 5 months, she was the one that always contacted me. When I contacted her last Friday through whatsapp she acted extremely cold with one word answers, so when I saw this I stopped answering, a few hours later she blocked me on whatsapp. Two days later she unblocked me and started talking to me asking how I was, asking about my family, my friends, my life. We chatted for a few hours and she seemed to be in a good attitude. Later that night she blocks me again on whatsapp. Then tree days later she unblocks me again for a few hours and then blocks me again, she didn't initiated any contact this time. She has a picture with the new dude in whatsapp. Why is she acting this way?. Any opinions? I was thinking in reaching out to her through Facebook but it is a very stupid idea, I better leave it this way till she reaches out. thanks!!

[Frozensushi]

Why is she acting this way?. Any opinions? I was thinking in reaching out to her through Facebook but it is a very stupid idea, I better leave it this way till she reaches out. thanks!!

 

She likes knowing you are still thinking about her. It's an ego boost. She likes toying with you. That's it.

 

Obviously, you are not over her or you wouldn't care. If you we're you'd have blocked her on all social media and her phone number indefinitely.

 

Not sure what you want to gain here. Are you wanting to rekindle things with her? Sounds like a bad idea if you are.

[rov]

She likes knowing you are still thinking about her. It's an ego boost. She likes toying with you. That's it.

 

Obviously, you are not over her or you wouldn't care. If you we're you'd have blocked her on all social media and her phone number indefinitely.

 

Not sure what you want to gain here. Are you wanting to rekindle things with her? Sounds like a bad idea if you are.

 

Do you think I have any chances of rekindling things with her?. I already deleted her from facebook and instagram. And yes, she might playing games with me to boost her ego.

Edited November 29, 2016 by rov

[basil67]

Do you think I have any chances of rekindling things with her?.

 

Are you prepared to give up your dream of music for her? If you cave and change who you are for her, you may have a chance.

 

You'll also be a doormat if you do this....but it's your choice.

[DarrenB]

Do you think I have any chances of rekindling things with her?. I already deleted her from facebook and instagram. And yes, she might playing games with me to boost her ego.

 

Don't go changing.

 

For anyone. If someone fails to accept your own personal aspirations and attritbutes then they by all means should not be present in your life.

 

You'd be wise to let this one go and follow your dreams.