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My ex started texting me and told me she missed me i told my girlfriend about it and she started being insecure but reassured her were my heart was.

 

A day later she told me she wasnt so comfortable because of my ex and we had a long talk about it and everything was perfect.

 

2dae i ruined it my ex wanted to see me sleep over and told her i cannot and when i was talked to my girlfriend she picked something was wrong and forced me to talk tried lying but eventually told her, asked her if she knew ild never cheat on her and she said yes and asked why and told her was just thinking off all the wrong my ex did and i will never cheat or be the reason she is hurt because i deeply care but things got nasty and now was claiming i was thinking of her meaning i want her started making me seem like im bad told me i blind her with my love when i dont care and switched off her phone,at im alwys bringing her up.

 

To be honest i think shes fedup and think im gonna lose her,i love her so much not wanting anything to do with my ex is because she has my heart completely.

 

Any advise on what to do or any resolution

 

Thank You

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eightytwenty Established Member

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Quit talking to the ex for one...

 

Then try blocking said ex so she can't get ahold of you...

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basil67 Established Member

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Yes. Block all contact with your ex. You may not see her in a carnal sense, but she certainly wants more than friendship with you.

 

If you block the ex completely and don't miss her or regret blocking her, then you girlfriend may reconsider.

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Satu Established Member

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Any advise on what to do or any resolution

 

You need an extra large can of Ex Remover.

 

Here's what it says on the label:

 

 

*No direct contact.

*No sending or receiving of messages.

*Block any means she might use to contact you.

*No replies to anything that gets through your blocks.

*No indirect contact through third parties.

*De-friend or delete her from all social media.

*No monitoring of her on social media.

*No 'little birds' feeding you news.

*Tell people that you don't want to know anything about what she is doing or saying.

 

 

Take care.

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MarkIVSteel Established Member

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How about you stop talking to your bloody ex and stop telling your girlfriend your ex spoke to you.

 

Block your ex and move on with your life.

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preraph Established Member

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Look, if you have an ex after you and you're in a relationship you want to KEEP, then it is your duty to BLOCK the ex, and that is the only way to save this. Let HER do it so she knows it's done and tell the ex no more contact. Change your number. You can't expect anyone to put up with an imminent threat like that and you putting up with it.

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Satu Established Member

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And one other thing:

 

Don't try to conceal your bad decisions by telling lies.

 

Thats not something that anyone wants in a boyfriend.

 

You *might* have a chance of reconciliation here, if you block the ex and apologise.

 

Do your best.

 

 

Take care.

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Gaeta Established Member

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You tried to make her jealous by telling her your ex was still chasing you and it backfired in your face.

 

Now delete and block the ex.

 

Actually an ex texted me yesterday. Did I tell my boyfriend? NO, I am a big girl and I can get rid of ex all on my own. I also don't need to hurt my boyfriend and my relationship by bragging how cool I must be if an ex still wants me.

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dispatch3d Established Member

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Just block the ex, likes other said. Your girlfriend shouldn't be so unhappy with an ex attempting to get back with you and failing. You also don't have to bring it up to her.

 

Lastly absolutely don't try to lie your way out of a "situation". You are hurting yourself more than anything I said in the previous paragraph. Stable relationships don't consist of lies.

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Thank You all for the input i have already blocked her now and im now just waiting to speak to my girlfriend hoping she would have calmed down a bit when i do

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Miss Peach Established Member

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If I had a BF who wouldn't put up the proper boundaries when his ex came looking to get back together I would leave. I would assume he's not into me, had no balls, or wants to cheat.

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smackie9 Established Member

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You are not done yet. You need to forward a message to your ex that you want nothing to do with her, you will no longer be in contact, not to try to contact you, and tell her to move on. Then proceed to show your GF this message you sent to your ex. Next show her you blocking and deleting your ex's number off your phone and social media.

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