Author Springsummer Posted November 29, 2016 Author Posted November 29, 2016 Is life worth living without someone to love and care about?
Redhead14 Posted November 29, 2016 Posted November 29, 2016 (edited) Is life worth living without someone to love and care about? You do have someone to love and care about . . . YOU!!! Start doing that. I don't need a man to make me happy. I want a man who enhances and adds to the happiness I already have. If there isn't anyone who does that for me, I have a rich, fulfilling life of my own. I have been married and divorced, dated several men, buried a fiancé and an am currently with a man I love very much. I also have a life that I enjoy that runs parallel to my relationship and if, this relationship ends, I will have my own life to fall back on. Get a life for yourself. Find things you enjoy doing, hobbies, charity interests, take classes. Try anything and everything. Be free, enjoy your life. And, what I know now, is fodder for my future . . . embrace and learn from the past but don't live there. Edited November 29, 2016 by Redhead14 3
Author Springsummer Posted November 29, 2016 Author Posted November 29, 2016 You do have someone to love and care about . . . YOU!!! Start doing that. I don't need a man to make me happy. I want a man who enhances and adds to the happiness I already have. If there isn't anyone who does that for me, I have a rich, fulfilling life of my own. I have been married and divorced, dated several men, buried a fiancé and an am currently with a man I love very much. I also have a life that I enjoy that runs parallel to my relationship and if, this relationship ends, I will have my own life to fall back on. Get a life for yourself. Find things you enjoy doing, hobbies, charity interests, take classes. Try anything and everything. Be free, enjoy your life. And, what I know now, is fodder for my future . . . embrace and learn from the past but don't live there. Thank you so much! I feel lifted and feel better now. butt.......... it's easier for you to say though, because you have experienced and have everything. The same couldn't be said of me. What can I say...I didn't seize the opportunities and/or manage better my life when I had the little chances. Now I find life is increasing difficult with aging...I find metabolism, physical and mental energy level etc...just not the same anymore. I did try to make friends and have some hobbies, but it's very difficult. for example, I like skiing and snowboarding, but for the life of me, I just couldn't find any regular female friend to go with me. So I go alone. Gym? alone too. Swimming? alone too. Rollerblading? alone too. Women generally don't have the same as I do and/or most of them have hubby and/or kids and don't need to be with me. I made a few friends in the past, after a couple of years they went back to home country or somewhere else for work. and then we don't even talk any more. Men? abysmal to even meet one that's remotely interested. I don't know why life doesn't work for me. admittedly maybe I didn't try and work hard enough, but still when I tried, found nothing either. besides being short (5'2'') I don't think I have much physical shortcoming and I have never hurt or harm anybody (maybe besides my parents emotionally). so I really don't know why my life suck that much...maybe I need to work harder and smarter(I admit I was extremely dumb) but still life does suck for me.
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